u/Effective-End-1931

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did anyone else really struggle at level 83 of an adventure section? I’ve been playing for 2+ years and it took me about 4 hours to complete this level bc it just kept giving me blocks that in no way could let me beat the level 🫠🫠 (was this a bug or just the game challenging me)

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u/Effective-End-1931 — 7 days ago
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My bsf is “talking to” my ex bsfs pedo defender ex

Hi all. This is a throwaway account I rarely use I just need to know if I end this friendship or not. This is a very long complicated story so I’ll try keep it as readable as possible.

I (21f) had a best friend of 6+ years (call her Charlotte 20f). We went through a lot together and she was truly my rock at times. We had a very rocky relationship mainly due to her BPD which even though not her fault, she didn’t try to manage and became a very toxic person. The last year of our friendship she had a boyfriend let’s call him Leo and their relationship was awful. I made a list documenting all the bad stuff he did to her to convince her to breakup with him and here is the two main points.

  1. She got SA’ed by his friend (while she was underage) before they began dating and even though he knew about it, he broke up with her over it and called her a liar and even told his dad who agreed she was an “evil liar”
  2. At my 21st he shoved her to the floor on the street in front of one of my friends while I wasn’t present
  3. I casually mentioned my own SA story in a joking manner to Charlotte while he was present and he immediately asked what I meant and just called me a liar without any context whatsoever.
    These are only the three probably worst things he’s done and the list is extensive but I feel like this is important to show the kind of person he is.

Charlotte and Leo broke up about 7 months ago and her and I stopped being friends about a month before they split due to our own issues but here is where i’m asking for advice.

My best friend (Amy 19f) hooked up with Leo at a club about and I found out through my other friend sending me a video. She knew who he was because I spoke about Charlotte and I’s relationship but did not mention much of what Leo had done. I immediately messaged her the next day when she was sober and told her not to get with him because he’s a bad person however the reasons I listed were that he was broke and just treated people bad etc because I didn’t want to vent. The problem was she kept seeing him and kept getting closer with him, despite me asking her to not.
Eventually Charlotte found out that they were talking because of an accidental post from one of Leo’s friends and she lost it, yelling at me, Leo and Charlotte. That was sorted quickly as we weren’t friends.
I eventually told her only about a week after they started talking about all the stuff he did to me and her throughout their relationship and although she said she “understood” and “wouldn’t forgive him for that” they’ve only become closer since. I asked my mum for advice and she basically told me that I couldn’t get in the way of two people in love and I would have to be there for her or cut her off. Her and I arranged a brunch date the other day were she told me if I was the reason they stopped talking she would “resent me” despite not wanting to, but what hurts me is that she doesn’t even want to be serious with him she says she’s just “enjoying her time” however he has just posted a story of them together on his instagram and he seems pretty serious about it. She has also distanced herself from me a bit, we always use to ask each other to hangout and now I have asked a couple times but she has told me she’s busy and hasn’t asked me.

I guess what i’m asking is this just truly someone who is in love or blinded by male attention or is this as bad as i’m making it out in my head. Truly our friendship was so good and I loved her deeply but I know she’s pretty male centered but this one is just someone I cannot get out of my mind.

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u/Effective-End-1931 — 10 days ago