u/Efficient_Fish_57

hello! sorry for possible mistakes i’m writing being really nervous. i would like to hear from someone who knows. please don’t blame on me

i’m 17 and i live in Rome almost for a year now. recently i suspect that i’m pregnant, even though we did everything to avoid this. i’m financially in a bad situation, and i just don’t want to ruin my life now. i feel very bad about it and i blame myself a lot but there is no other choice for me.

my parents are religious people and they are in another country, im here legally because of a woman who has rights to be my “tutor” i guess.

i wanted to know if its possible to get an abortion if i’m 17 without letting my parents and this woman know? if i tell them about my decision, i will no longer be their daughter.

also i heard that there are doctors who can refuse and delay everything to that point, that it will be too late. i’m very scared. i don’t know what to do. i’m struggling mentally last months and it would become a last straw for me

upd: for someone questioning how i live here. this woman is my boyfriend’s mom. before we both left our country to live here, my parents had made documents which allow her to take responsibility for me. my english isn’t really good, i don’t know exactly how to describe it, she’s not a guardian, but i can live here legally under her supervision

upd 2: thank you everyone for nice words and advice!