My ex (26F) called me twice last night at 10:30, 4 days after blocking me (25M) on everything and telling me to never contact her again after a bad breakup. I was asleep because I need to be up for work at 5:00am every day for work.
What does this mean and what should I do?
I (25M) just got dumped by my now ex (26F) after a big argument. We’ve had a few… she has a 4 year old and just got a tummy tuck/boob job a couple weeks ago. Last week as we’re laying in bed, she tells me she defaulted on her mortgage. She just spent $15k on that surgery. Not to mention, she did cocaine with her friends after a night out about a week or so after she told me she wouldn’t do it ever again. All of this sounds like red flags, and they are, but I wasn’t perfect either. I slept through my alarm a couple times and was late to plans we had. I called her white trash after the coke thing. I fell asleep while babysitting her son. I’ve said things I regret during multiple arguments. It sucks because I really love her and I know that she is a good person and at least I’ve thought she was a healthy communicator. I just don’t know what to feel right now. I was told “this isn’t going to work. Don’t ever contact me again.” I’m blocked on everything, not that I have intentions of reaching out. I just hope she does so I can apologize for my words. Thought she was the one. Still feel that way.