u/Eggtart_ly

I think I’m overthinking this….
But basically I like this guy who is close friends with my close friends but I wasn’t close with them when I started the school in yr7 so I wasn’t in their group chat so I’ve never talks to the guy at all( I’ve only started liking him in yr10 and I’m in yr11 now)
So obviously I’m leaving school soon and I know we’ll be in the same school next year because I heard while he was talking to my friends when we have a class together.
But we’ve never spoken mainly because I’m just really awkward socially and I’m terrified of him judging me. On leavers day everyone signs their names on each others shirts. Would it be weird if I asked him to sign my shirt even though we’ve never spoken and I’ve only just stood next to him most of the time 😭😭😭

I’m 16 and I’m choosing my college/6th form subjects. I’ve always seen women in STEM and I’ve always admired those who are women in STEM and for the longest time I thought that was what I wanted to do but now I’m just thinking that it’s not for me and I’m leaning towards a more humanities or performing arts or psychology centred career which are careers that stereotypically and statistically women are expected to have. So now I’m feeling extremely guilty for wanting a job in these areas, whereas jobs in STEM as a woman are what is associated with feminism, woman empowerment and being capable. All my friends want jobs in STEM and pride themselves for being girls in STEM and it makes me feel like I’m going down the wrong path. Which I know is wrong as anyone could have any career and be a feminist and be a strong woman

I think I really just need some reassurance