being ghosted as a breakup after rather intense 5 months
I’m really struggling to keep my head up I damn near read any posts on Reddit that has to do with ghosting and relationships ending out of no where it’s embarrassing to deal with all this but I’m hurt I hope I can get support from this
Me (26) my ex she is (28) now
We met on fb dating on the day of my birthday she reached out to me we talked vibed she asked to come over and spend time with me I was so happy and joyful I didn’t have much for my bday but she did what she could for me to help me enjoy it we talked about how we grew up and what life like for us we talked about being together we agreed to be to try it and we became a couple the day after or 2 days after my bday we slept together but I wanted to be with her so did she we ate together cooked together we washed each other in the shower layed in bed together things I never got to do with any girlfriend I had in the past that’s why it hurts like this things were okay even tho she had to take care of sick parents she always tried to make sure we still spent time but by the 2nd or 3rd month of dating the coming over starting being less and her parents need her more n more I still see her but not as much as I would before I was already on the brink of losing my job before we met so it was a struggle mentally but we had each others back after I end up losing my job I believe a day or so later she went to go donate plasma so we could have a little extra money and to go see her sickly mother she never came back or texted that day then the next day or few days she tells me she is in the hospital she fell out tryna donate she telling me she in the hospital they running tests just be patient and there for her which I was she needed money for food and to go see her mom and also to come back to see me but she never came to see me she kept texting me through Cash App that was my only way to communicate with her cause she never really had a real working phone since we met a crappy android after I couldn’t send more money cause I literally borrowed money sold my new clothes and hustled to make sure she was okay in the hospital the last time I heard from her was in Feb on Cash App I couldn’t send money for a while but around that time I tried too and her Cash App name wasn’t the same it was a man’s name but no pic I never thought to check if she had fb cause someone hacked the one I was added on originally a close friend of hers I reached out to before about her the time she left didn’t come back at the hospital mind u I haven’t heard from my ex since Feb she needed food again but I literally had nothing left a few days ago idk what told me to check the close friends likes but I saw my ex new Facebook with new hair n new phone I was soooo fucked up and hurt literally crying so hard cause she promised to never ghost me she promised to never hurt me the close friend told me she responded back and said I’m not her bf I’m a stalker and she is okay and don’t bother her which is so embarrassing I felt sick because she never told me this beforehand and someone else who doesn’t know me has to tell me that I texted my ex new fb and days after being ignored seeing her friend list go up I just recently found I’m blocked on fb 20 minutes ago it’s more details I should explain but this is my first time telling my relationship on Reddit I know my punctuation is horrible I hope I can get a little help this hurts so bad