Moved country and hate it
Hi
Little backstory.
About 3 months ago I (25 male) moved from New Zealand to Queensland (Australia) thinking it was the place where I wanted to stay for a few years to build some cash and live for a bit. I previously travelled here last year to check it out, however upon moving I’ve realised I absolutely hate it here. The people are rude and up themselves (not saying everyone however the standard group of people on the gc aren’t the best. I’ve found the work is terrible (I’m a carpenter and the work is to a low standard and unsafe).
Before coming I couldn’t decide if I move to London or to Australia, the long term plan for me is to own my own construction company back in NZ so I wanted to set myself up for that. I chose Australia because it was similar building to nz and better pay which would be helpful in the long run. Part of me is still thinking about London for the life experiences despite not making too much money while over there.
This move overseas has absolutely drained me and made me regret everything. I’ve noticed I’ve become quite sad and can’t seem to enjoy the life I pictured I’d have here. At the same time I feel like a loser if I pack up and go home after such a short stint. I’m trying to find the positives.
Is 3 months too short of time to get a feel for a place? I’ve already worked with three different companies and have noticed the work environment for carpentry seems to be this poor everywhere. The trade shortage is starting to make sense.
I don’t mean to offend any Australians, however my personal experiences haven’t been pleasant.
I know there isn’t a definitive answer here, but just some words of encouragement or discussion of people who have been in the same position would be really appreciated.