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Three seasons in and I think Aegon and Aemond easily have the best chemistry on the show. Their reunion felt a bit rushed and incomplete, but I think it’ll land better once we see more of them together. Can’t wait to see them go full us against the world in season 4.

Every Aemond scene in Harrenhal was an acting masterclass.

I don’t think the problem was Aemond disappearing for two episodes. In fact, I think that absence could’ve been one of the smartest storytelling decisions of the season.

But the writers never fully committed to that idea.

Episode 2 leaves Aemond at his absolute lowest. He’s gravely wounded, calls out to Alys for help, and loses consciousness inside Harrenhal, a place already established as mystical, psychologically transformative, and home to a woman who is not only a healer, but possibly something far more.

Then he disappears.

For two entire episodes.

That kind of absence naturally creates an expectation. Not simply because a major character is missing, but because time itself becomes part of the narrative. If a story deliberately removes someone from the board, the audience assumes something meaningful is happening beyond the frame.

Which is why I think the writers missed a far more interesting opportunity.

Imagine if Episode 5 had opened with Aemond already back on his feet. His wounds had largely healed—perhaps through whatever influence Alys and Harrenhal truly possess.

But the real change wouldn’t be physical.

He would still be recognizably Aemond, yet subtly… different. As though something had happened during those unseen weeks that neither the audience nor the characters could fully understand. Almost otherworldly.

Instead of watching another gradual psychological journey unfold in Harrenhal, a narrative space that had already been thoroughly explored through Daemon’s arc in Season 2, the audience would spend the rest of the season trying to understand what those unseen weeks had done to Aemond, rather than watching that transformation begin exactly where Episode 2 had left it.

Ironically, I actually loved Aemond’s scenes in Episode 5.

From both a narrative and psychological perspective, I thought they were some of his strongest material. His conversation with Alys, his vulnerability, and the beginning of his internal transformation all worked remarkably well.

My issue isn’t with those scenes. It’s with where they happen.

After two episodes of absence, I wasn’t looking for a Harrenhal-style recovery. I was looking for a Harrenhal-style reveal.

If the writers had already chosen to remove Aemond from the story for two full episodes, I would’ve preferred his return to reveal the result of that absence rather than simply resume the process. I wanted to come back to a version of Aemond who had already been transformed by those unseen weeks, allowing the audience to gradually discover what Harrenhal had done to him.

The writers deliberately introduced an absence into Aemond’s story, but never allowed that absence to become part of the storytelling itself.

To me, cinema is about narration. Every scene, every cut, and every omission shapes the way we experience a story.

When a story chooses not to show something, that omission should tell its own story.

Instead, Aemond’s absence simply delayed the next chapter of his transformation.

The absence wasn’t the transformation. It was simply the space between two scenes of it.

Episode 5 almost feels like two therapy sessions placed back to back, two brothers, two therapists, and two completely different ways of processing trauma.
Aemond has lost almost everything. Vhagar is gone. He’s badly wounded. King’s Landing has fallen. He’s quite literally lost the war, and, as far as the realm knows, he killed his own brother.

Grief isn’t the surprising part. Aemond allowing himself to grieve is.

For three seasons, he’s survived by keeping every emotion under lock and key. Every humiliation, every fear, every insecurity has been buried beneath discipline, violence, and absolute control. Anger became his language because it was safer than vulnerability.

By the time he reaches Alys, though, that anger feels spent. It carried him this far. Now it can’t carry him any further.

He talks about Aegon. He admits that, despite everything, he worshipped his brother as a child. Then he starts to say:
“And yet our mother…”

…and the sentence never reaches the end.

Alys quietly responds:
“Sometimes the child who grieves her, a mother loves the best.”

I think that’s one of the most interesting lines in the episode because Alys never actually finishes Aemond’s thought. she redirects it.

Most viewers will probably assume she’s talking about Aegon, the son who caused Alicent the most pain.But the line is open enough that it could just as easily force Aemond to consider himself. After everything that’s happened, he isn’t only grieving his brother. He may also be confronting the possibility that he has become another source of his mother’s suffering.

Alys never tells him which interpretation is right. She doesn’t give Aemond an answer. She gives him a mirror. And I think that’s the real breakthrough of the scene. For the first time in three seasons, Aemond stops fighting.
He isn’t trying to prove himself. He isn’t trying to justify himself. He isn’t trying to intimidate anyone.
He simply mourns.

After spending three seasons wearing control like armor, he finally sets it down. Not because he’s defeated. Because grief has become heavier than the armor itself.
And somehow, that’s the strongest and the most human we’ve ever seen him.

Aegon’s conversation takes the opposite path.
He walks into it angry. His attention stays fixed on Aemond. Larys never really validates that anger. Instead, he keeps turning the conversation back toward Aegon himself, reminding him that he had every opportunity to become the king he wanted to be and squandered those opportunities.
That’s why these scenes work so well together. They’re both about pain.They’re both about family. They’re both about identity. But they’re happening at different stages of grief.

Aemond has reached the point where anger has finally given way to mourning.

Aegon is still speaking through anger but, for perhaps the first time, someone forces him to stop looking at his brother long enough to look at himself.

Episode 5 gave us a fascinating glimpse into how differently Aegon and Aemond see themselves—and each other.
Aemond talks about himself as though Vhagar is the only thing that makes him valuable. Take Vhagar away, and he seems to believe there is nothing left.
But when Aegon talks about Aemond, he does not even mention Vhagar. Instead, he praises Aemond’s own qualities: he is a gifted swordsman, fluent in High Valyrian, disciplined, and everything Aegon believes he himself is not.
And Aemond does not describe Aegon as useless or unworthy either. Quite the opposite: he admits that, as a child, he worshipped his older brother. I think worshipped is the key word here. Aegon was not merely someone he liked or admired—he was the person young Aemond looked up to almost completely.
Then we cut to Aegon, who talks about himself as though he has no merit at all, as if the only reason he became king was that he happened to be born first.
That contrast is deeply tragic:
Aemond minimizes himself while worshipping the boy Aegon once was.
Aegon minimizes himself while recognizing all the qualities Aemond cannot see in himself.
For two brothers who now seem to hate each other, it is striking that each appears convinced the other was always the worthier son.

One small detail in Season 3 really stood out to me.
In Episode 1, when Aemond goes to Orwyle looking for Aegon, he doesn’t ask, “Where is the King?” He says:
“My brother… the King.”
Then, later at Harrenhal, while feverish and barely conscious, the very first name he says is, “My brother… Aegon.”
Honestly, I expected it to be Alicent. If his mind drifted to anyone in that vulnerable state, I thought it would be his mother. Instead, the first person he thinks of is Aegon.
To me, that’s a deliberate writing choice. In two completely different situations, Aemond instinctively identifies Aegon as his brother before anything else.
It’s a small detail, but I think it says a lot about how layered their relationship really is.