u/Em0_Ang3l1436 — reddlx

[Question] (Slight NSFW??) Does anyone know of any BRA commissioners?

So, wee bit different, i know, so I'm hoping this is allowed 🥲 (Also, the picture is the kind of bra i'm referring to)

So, I've been absolutley dying for a spiked bra since I was like 13. Obviously, I wasn't allowed one, fair enough. But one i was 18 and moved out, i started looking for some. Unfortunatley though, i found that there didn't seem to be any in my size. Alright. Cool. So I tried to DIY it myself, but unfortunately, it didn't go to well, my joints started acting up, which made it harder for me to do, and my chest got bigger out of nowhere (meaning the bra i was using no longer fit me).

So i can't really do it myself, unfortunately. But I'm now 20, and still wanting one as much as I did then. But again, the only issue, is nowhere sells them in my sizing, due to it being an incredibly awkward size (UK 30H). And the only thing i can really think of now, is getting it custom made/commissioned. But, unfortunately, I have no idea where to go for that. I'm hoping to try not go kver £75 if thats possible. But does anyone know anywhere that does these type of bra commissions for someone with my sizing?

u/Em0_Ang3l1436 — 4 days ago

▲ 46 r/poor

Can't afford gas rn

So, it's taken alot to actually ask for advice on this, I've been embarrassed and anxious, but i'm gonna try. Basically, I'm 20, and I've been living alone since i was about 17. Overall it's been fine-ish?? But unfortunately, something quite bad happened to me about 2 years ago when i was 18, which lead to me going on a really bad spiral, and in December of 2024 until August 2025, I went into a really bad depressive episode and suspected psychosis, and had completely isolated myself. And basically, during that time period, paranoia hit an all time high, to the point I was ghosting UC, had multiple welfare checks done on me, and couldn't leave my bed at all. It was horrendous.

Of course, I've slowly been trying to work myself back up from it, I've been in counselling, I try go out once a week, and trying to work on my social skills again. However, due to the isolation period, and UC getting paused, I had been unable to pay for Gas, and had to get it capped, because it was eating at money I didn't have. Now, I'm working on getting my house bad in order so i can (hopefully) get it uncapped, which is unfortunatley been a really slow progress unfortunately due to mobility issues, and dealing with autism and burnout stuff. In the meantime, I've been trying to save the money I can, so that I can put it in once its uncapped.

But i was just wondering, in the mean time, if theres anything I could get, maybe like an add on or a device or something, so I can use the shower? I've been using the kettle to fill up the bath, but it's getting harder to do so with my hips and back. Does anyone have any advice or tips? (Will also note rq, I can't ask to use a family member or whoever's shower, as i don't have any- It was an abusive situation, that i had to get myself out of, hence the living alone at 17. So unfortunately, its just myself.)

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u/Em0_Ang3l1436 — 12 days ago

▲ 19 r/obgyn

Firstly, apologies for the bad photos, I had already been in the bathroom for quite a while and had to take them quickly so my bf didn't ask anything.

Idk. I'm 20, but i have so many issues surrounding my reproductive health in general. I had precocious puberty, periods have been a nightmare since I was about 7. My mum used to give me some her her prescription 30/500mg (?) Co-codamols when i was 9, but they stopped working by the time I was 12. Now, at 20, I'm on crutches most days, and bed bound during periods. I had the implant (Nexplanon) for a while, and that was a disaster. I had my period for 4 months straight, i started fainting, and less than a year after it got put in, I got it removed after it caused me to completley loose control of my bowels/bladder. We Don't use protection, but at no point have I gotten pregnant (Weve been together 4 years), so i suspect i might be infertile somehow.

But something I've found, is sex or anything penetrative is quite painful for me. I lost my virginity when I was 16, and its not really changed. I don't know if its related to all that, hence why I mentioned it, or its something else. I mean, I'm asexual too, so i don't know if its something to do with that? But everytime I have sex or something penetrative, it hurts so much. It takes me a good 5 minutes to ease into it, and even then, after a couple minutes it starts to hurt really badly. And I've noticed that everytime I do anything penetrative, my whole vulva swells up like a balloon (I Don't have any pictures of what my vulva looks like normally for comparison, but i can say that that is no where near what it looks like normally.) Its also incredibly painful to touch, which makes going to the bathroom incredibly painful, I physically can't wioe, only dab very very gently, and even then, it still feels like sandpaper. And sex just leaves me feeling nauseous and physically ill for days after.

I Don't really know what this is, or what is wrong with my body, and I'm just wondering if anyone has any idea of what this could be or why this is happening to me? Its exhausting.

u/Em0_Ang3l1436 — 20 days ago