u/EmbarrassedDelay5281

I’ve been afraid of posting about this because I can’t handle any judgement at the moment, but I suppose I’ll put it out there. Long story short, I allowed a guy to completely destroy me. He played me, took me for a ride, disposed of me and moved on to others. I wasn’t an angel in this relationship and had my problems and I take ownership of that. But I’m seeing now how calculated everything was on his side and how much he took advantage of me for his own gain. It’s been months and I still feel like a shell of my former self. I’ve spiraled into a deep depression. It’s affected my every day life. My performance at work. Everything. I’m in therapy and I know it will take a while to find myself again. I feel multiple levels of hurt. The hurt of the loss, the hurt of being played, and the hurt of me not being strong enough to bounce back. I’m wondering if anyone has any comforting words or advice on how to at least ease the pain a little. I want my spark back.

Hey bros - I’ll cut to the chase. I struggle with confidence. I have a pretty lean and toned body and I would consider myself to be relatively attractive, My cock is a little over 6 inches and not too thick. Every FWB I have has said that my cock is “perfect.” They say that it doesn’t hurt them and that it’s just pleasure. I fake confidence, but I internally struggle with my size. I’m always thinking in the back of my mind that they’re just saying that to be nice and enjoying 7-8 inchers more. I take the compliment and go along with it. But I still wish I was bigger. I can’t escape this “I can’t fully pleasure them without being bigger” mindset. I’m also relatively new to topping. Any advice on how I can get over this? Or words of comfort lol.

Can someone give me some intel on these violins? I just tried one (definitely out of my budget, but figuring out if there’s some wiggle room), but my god, it’s such a gorgeous instrument. I don’t know too much about the maker. How are his violins in general? How rare are they?