u/EmmaNightsStone

I work in the teaching field for some context. We had a sub work for us for a couple weeks and she was great to work with. We had an opening available so she applied and got the job so she works for our school. This was like few months ago.

We got brunch together once. It was a fine hangout. And there has been a time we carpooled together when she needed a ride. We chat after work type thing.

I openly talk about my social anxiety/issues. How I struggle to make friends type of thing or have good friends. She has her fair share of depression n stuff.

I recently cut off someone I thought was my best friend. Honestly my coworker encouraged it and I do still agree with her points. My ex best friend would never reach out to me. Even after telling her I am in a bad spot mentally she doesn’t reach out. Ended up unfollowing her and stopped sharing my location.

I was casually just talking to my coworker about the situation and she mentioned towards end of the conversation I need to make friends other than my husband and coworkers.

Like idk how the fuck yall making friends outside of mutuals and coworkers. That some witchcraft idk about.

But honestly her comment made me very hurt. She doesn’t know me at all in regards of who I am/my past and social issues I’ve been having since I was a child (I don’t need to deep dive and tell her anything but I’m fine casually speaking of mental health)

I’m 23 for context she is 30 so there is a large age gap between us.

But anyway, I don’t really want to talk to her anymore. How do I go about this? we always wait and walk to our cars together. So I feel weird about going about this.

I prefer underground rave events but not sure where to locate these in San Fransisco. (I don’t live in the area) but I will be visiting next week. I’m looking for a show for either May 21st or 22nd. It can be 18/21+.

I’m checking out other websites, but if you have any recommendations I’ll take them!

Beyond was my first rave festival (We only went Friday.) and I had a blast with my fiancé. I’m more into it than he is, but he is supportive of me. 😌

I bought Nocturnal wonderland 2 day tickets for us. I already made payment plans for beyond 2027. I’m thinking of going to Countdown! These venues are local so it’s great and convenient. Dont need to spend extra on hotels.

I just thinking that’s a lot of festivals in one area I would hate to burn out my fiancé. He gave me the go ahead though. Since being a holiday and all.

I’ve thought of apocalypse but I’m not too sure to add it because it’s 2 hrs away depending on traffic.