my best friend's boyfriend called me the f slur
A few days ago I was on FaceTime with my best friend. she was sending videos over snapchat to her boyfriend. i could hear the videos they were sending to each other. like 30 minutes into the call i mocked her bf when he said something bc he said it in a funny way. my bsf told him 'emma (me) is mocking you right now'. a few minutes later she opened his snap and he said 'I bet can make her cry by mocking her' or something like that. I assumed he would call me gay or something bc he tries to make jokes like that whenever I'm with them. i just laughed at his video. instead, he proceeded to send her another video calling me a 'fag'. my best friend laughed pretty hard at it. she knows I am sensitive to that stuff, and I have literally snitched on someone before at school because I was being bullied (the person was calling me the f slur every week). I told her i had to go and didn't end up facetiming with him, which was the plan. thinking back, it really upsets me that she would just laugh at it. so I told her he pisses me off when he says slurs. this straight white (almost 19 year old) guy cannot go a minute without saying the N, R, or F slur. I told her I dont want to ft with him again because it was not cool or funny to call me that word. I told her that I think she could do something about it if she wanted to, she told me she couldnt.
should I bring it up to her how I dont appreciate her condoning it again? it just really upsets me. she has been there for me when I was dealing with homophobia, but when her new boyfriend does it, I guess it's okay? I know she isn't homophobic, but i do know that she understands how much being called that affects me.