r/Gayteenagers

Hi, everyone this past year, I had a crush on a guy in my school, he claims to be straight but if you look at him you know he is 100% gay (at least I hope he is)

Sometimes I tried to make a move but he didn't understand it and sadly my school was over and I was going to change schools, never seeing him again :(

I thought he would just forget me, BUT he texted me yesterday, asking if I was going to a band concert, and if I could he would come with me (sounds like a date to me)

Now, he kinda hurted me because he was really gentle with me but so with others, and he never cared more than that, to be fair I'm horrible showing affection and saying that I was in love with him without saying it, so he could be too

What I'm trying to say is, do I go with him (he never payed much attention to me) to the concert (paying 53€ just to enter, + maybe some present for him) do I take a shot or is it already lost?

(Also sorry for ad English, English is not my main language)

Does anyone have tips on how to get a gay boyfriend in Sweden because i really want to get one i am 16 btw so i think that makes it harder. How have you gays gotten boyfriends?

I’m 16 years old and I live in southern USA 🫩. I have literally never even met a gay dude in real life. On top of that my whole family is extremely homophobic and religious so idk if I’d ever be able to tell them the truth. I’m not really flamboyant so my friend group is only straight dudes and ik deep down they wouldn’t wanna hang out with me if they knew how I feel. I also kinda have high standards when it comes to dudes. I don’t want some super duper flamboyant kinda guy, I’d rather be with someone like me who acts more “straight” and has similar interests like videos games and anime n shit. I don’t really know how to find people.

Most of my friends are apart of the LGBTQ community. When they make pride jokes and stuff , they kinda single me out for being straight? I am a HUGE ally, I'm just not apart of LGBTQ community. It just just makes me feel like I don't fit in, and I don't want to be something I'm not. This is probably stupid, but any advice or whatever would help.

Ok guys, this might seem kinda sad but I swear it isn't that bad. So there's this girl at my school who I REALLY like. She's funny, smart, kind, and I'm very physically attracted to her. We only really started talking 6 months ago, but we became good friends really quickly. Anyways, I don't want to be too specific just incase some people i know see this, but about 2-3 months ago we were at a small party and she was kinda acting like I was her bf...she also put her hand on my upper thigh, said she specifically wanted me to sit next to her, calling me the huzz, etc. Another person at the party was like "Is this genuine chemistry" and we both didn't say anything.

So at this point I was kinda being delusional and spiralling, thinking that she liked me and getting my hopes up. This happened even more when we were hanging out one-on-one and we walked to this semi-romantic hiking spot and she was like "this would be the perfect makeout spot" and later touching my upper thigh again (although she is a pretty touchy person so I wouldn't take this too seriously). Anyways, some more similar stuff to this happened (I really don't wanna say cause it's so obvious and no one knows I'm bi and I wanna keep it that way) including us being in class and her pointing at me and saying I'm the most gay in our 8 person class friend group, which was so embarrassing and made me think that she was making fun of me, or maybe she thought I was acting really gay when we were together and she thinks it's weird. I started spiralling again like "how does she know i'm bi". And I feel like if she were gay she wouldn't just say that I'm gay like THAT.

So like, now I'm very sure that she doesn't like girls, let alone likes me. But I can't help it. I thought I was over her for a good week, but I had a dream about her, and since then I'm thinking about her like, a LOT. Whenever we spend time together I feel like I act kinda weird.

I'm just wondering, how can I stop liking her?

i can’t handle it i see so many cute boys and i am such a wimp and it doesn’t help that im short, fat
and ugly 😭

Hi all! I'm 17M, turning 18 in about two weeks. I just graduated high school two months ago, and let's just say my love life has been pretty awful. I am from Oklahoma, so that is probably a big part of it but I also don't "look" gay. People usually dont realize until they have a conversation with me.

The closest I ever got to a relationship was this guy I confessed to who then ghosted me over the course of a week. This really messed me up for while and it took the rest of my senior year to actually heal from it, and I've been really nervous about opening up to people like that ever since.

I will be going to Cornell for college, in upstate NY. I also realize that the answer to this question is different depending on where you're headed, but was just wondering if anyone found dating easier after hs. Thanks!

Im 17, from switzerland, recently came out to some friends, not family. I want a boyfriend, but don't know where to look. I've had crushes on guys but I never know of they're gay (I'm also very straight looking, I don't really fit the stereotype of gays). I don't really resonate much with the loud lgbt spaces as I don't care much for protests and dislike loud spaces or parties (including gay bars). Are there any lowkey places (preferably in switzerland) for gays? Like a cafe or something? I also like to do tennis and go to the gym.

You know just the regular oh shit the friend im having sleepover with actually pleasures my eyes.

Im 17M btw.

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as I'm going to a new school soon enough after the summer vacation, I want to express myself as a femboy, so how do I do that? I am way too ashamed to do it because I don't know how, any help is appreciated!

I'm JUST starting to get into the fEmBoY look and NeEd help. How do I choose a look (no skirts)? I like dos long arm things but I can decide between either past elbow or forearm long. do i have to look just like a woman or can I go more subtle? I have NOOO clue what to do

I'm in love with my best friend as a gay high schooler

PS: THIS IS A VERY LONG RANT, IF YOU DON'T WANT TO READ IT JUST SCROLL

Yeah strong off the bat but it's true. I'm in love with one of my homeboys and I feel bad, and it's not long it's new feelings but they just started to get stronger, wayyyyy stronger. One of the bad parts is me and his girlfriend used to be best friends until she kind of fucked me over, and every now and then he'll ask why, but with how bad and her fell out I don't want I don't want to tell him.

The way I like him isn't like....y'know, based off hormones if you get what I mean, but in a romantic way, like I'd kill everyone in that school if it meant me and him could live happily together with no doubt about who we are, but he's not only straight, but he's also dating a girl I don't fuck with at all so it's hard to be around him when he gets all lovey dovey for her.

sometimes we should flirt like how bros do but sometimes I want his words to be true, and I'm to far in to back out now, were such "bros" he'll legit sit on my lap in front of the whole cafeteria as one of our joking bro things, the point is he knows were bros and best friends, but id kill for anything more than that.

One last thing before you can forget about this post and just move on. There was this one time he came into first period on the verge of tears, he just sat down and layed his hand down on the desk and sobbed, not wanting to bother him I just rub his back and let him be, not prodding but not leaving either.

I'm guessing I wasn't paying attention at the time but some how my hand ended up in his, he was just crying and carresing my hand as he did, and I feel horrible for feeling this way but to me it almost felt intimate, for him to be so vulnerable in front of so many people and he chose to hold on to me. Turns out him and his girlfriend were arguing at the time and he was upset, I'm not sure why but it's not my business.

So if any like wise gay guy or someone who's been in my position give me advice that would be nice, because I have cried over this guy and I feel bad for loving him like I do so any help would be appreciated

Also, if the guy Im talking about some how figures this is about you and you know exactly who I am, I'm sorry for doing this to you

(14M) Hi. I dont even know what im doing here. So, you think that a 6’4 (193cm) kind of muscular and horny teenager would be all over women? WRONG. Ive never had an romantic relationship with anyone, and i kind of also never really thought about it because anything that had romantic values in my life was explicit. Until yesterday. Michael, my best friend invited me to his birthday party in our local pool. Disclaimer: im a professional swimmer. at 5, all of them were dressed in trunks and wetting their knees with ice-cold water from time to time splashing themselves. After we all got used to it, Michael started diving with me underwater, while the others were wrestling. Oh god. Thats when it happned. A group of teenagers sweating, fighting, etc. that awakened something in me, that wasnt so… obvious. I quickly went out of the water without anyone noticing and covered myself with a towel for obvious reasons. I didnt need to google my symptoms ; i was gay. Please guys, reply to my post so i wont feel awkward with posting it.

How do you actually know you're gay?

So for context i knew i've been gay for quite some time and i am now 14m and lonely cause i have been wanting a boyfriend so long who is THE SAME AGE or 1 YEAR OLDER NO CREEPS HERE and i have found none online or IRL. So when i was younger my brother had this friend who was tall big buff and i started having a crush on him and that i think that awoke my sexuality and now all i want is a big buff guy. Like omgggg i need someone

I'm tired of being free in these private accounts that are different in front of people, even online, but unknown to anyone. I'm tired of lying to people, including my family, during everyday conversations, but the truth is, if I tell people I'm gay, I'll probably lose all respect for them, and I will have no one left...Uhhh shortly,I'm tired of this shi...

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