u/Emmal_House

My husband and I are separating and thankfully things are still relatively peaceful between us

we already agreed on finances and property, so we’ve been trying to avoid spending a huge amount on attorneys if we can realistically handle the process ourselves

What surprised me is how confusing the Pennsylvania paperwork side feels once you actually start researching it

online everyone talks about uncontested divorce like it’s simple, but then you open court instructions and suddenly there are affidavits, notices, filing timelines and a bunch of legal language that makes everything feel way more intimidating than expected

For people in Pennsylvania who handled divorce yourselves:

did the DIY route actually work out for you, or did you eventually feel like hiring a lawyer would’ve been less stressful?

Mostly just trying to get through this process correctly without turning an already emotional situation into months of paperwork problems

I’ve been going down the usual rabbit hole trying to find a decent VPS and somehow HostZealot keeps popping up

At first I kinda ignored it, but the pricing + specs actually look too good to just scroll past. Still, I’ve been burned before by hosts that look great on paper and then turn into random lag spikes and support tickets that go nowhere

Right now I’m running a small project that’s slowly growing, so I need something that won’t fall apart the moment traffic starts picking up. Not expecting perfection, just stability and normal uptime without babysitting the server 24/7

If anyone here is really using them:

did it hold up over time or did it turn into one of those cheap for a reason situations?

Would appreciate any honest takes, even if it’s not all positive