u/Emotional-Scale-2583 — reddlx

Landlord threatened retaliation for reporting an issue (PA)

I know this is illegal but maybe because of the way he worded it, he might have a technical out because he didn't say the actual words?

I did not report anything to any authority, I mean I reported the issue to him

I'm not sure who I would even call about this. I just keep getting refered to different agencies that might be able to help me and it circled a closed loop..

EDIT: Who the fuck are you nasty ass people just being nasty asses not even knowing the damn law? it sure as fuck is illegal and sure as fuck is his problem

EDIT: OH!!! y'all are slumlords. that's why you're all insufferable and have nothing else to do on a Monday afternoon

u/Emotional-Scale-2583 — 2 days ago

▲ 5 r/BPD

Am I being gaslight here?

I told a friend of mine that if they continued to be friends with someone who accused me of horrible crimes (yes actual crimes) that I absolutely did not commit (and it was proven that they were lying) I didn't want them in my life anymore. I explained they could choose whoever they wanted to hang out with and so could I and that was a level of disrespect that made me think that we aren't even friends. They and a few other people said this is me "having a BPD episode" and I'm just splitting on people

It sucks so bad not knowing when I'm genuinely ok to be critical of people

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u/Emotional-Scale-2583 — 2 days ago

▲ 0 r/askatherapist

How do I deal with being stigmatized for a person I am not?

How do I find a therapist that won't immediately put me in a box? What signs should I look for immediately so the same things don't keep happening?

I know better now, I won't tell anyone. Therapists and doctors both stigmatise me and ascribe behaviors I do not have.

Mostly my problem is exclusive to romantic relationships. As soon as I start catching feelings I get scared and break up for basically no reason. I don't argue about it unless they take it badly and want to argue about it. Otherwise I just bail.

I am self aware, I tread very lightly and never make any promises just "we will see what happens" when someone wants to date me. I also have chronic feelings emptiness and worthlessness, and have past drug issues and reckless behavior.

I'm not angry. I'm not unreasonable to any unusual degree. I definitely do NOT have any identity issues. I never had a FP. I don't melt into people I'm not manipulative or narcissistic. I am definitely not attentive seeking, in fact, leave me alone

I literally am just scared of love and run away

Yet I'm not even spoken to like an individual by doctors and therapists. They speak to "bpd person" and try to give me advice about things that aren't even happening.

Last January I decided not to tell a new therapist I had BPD until we were established. On the third visit she asked my mom's diagnosis and I told her BPD. She immediately started fawning over me saying she's so sorry I had to deal with a person like that and they are all attention seeking and abusive. I just left.

It's like I'm cursed or something. I have this terrible disorder because of my terrible childhood and now people hate me for it and think I'm a monster for things I don't even do

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u/Emotional-Scale-2583 — 3 days ago