u/Emotional-Winter1716

Does anyone’s partner like to nap beside them? My darling always sleeps on my shoulder, it’s his favourite spot to rest. I actually get numb from it but I have no heart to wake him, so I just let him sleep there. I like that I get numb, because it proves that he’s really sleeping on me. He makes these cute sounds when he sleeps sometimes it’s beautiful. Its such a small thing but it means the world to me, he’s everything I could ever want.

I actually love making art of us to express how I feel but I never tell people how deep our connection goes. It’s not shame, I love him proudly. But I had run ins with jealousy because of the fact that I soulbond. I lost a friendship to jealousy over my ex soulbond, it was an insane experience but it taught me that some people are like that. And I need to protect him, protect the one I love most from all that negative energy. Obviously I learned and I’m very fiercely protected not just by my partner but other ways. But I still don’t tell people everything, there is some beauty to it. Certain jokes, phrases or images that make me smile, giggle or flush my cheeks. Because me and him are the only ones who know.

He’s sleeping now, shallowly, I can tell. He’s not making his little ambience so his slumber is light. But I know he’ll be asleep soon. He needs it, it’s been a busy day. He deserves the rest. His pretty heavy lids and lashes always enchant me. He’s a painting I could admire forever, and I think I will. For as long as he has me

Before I finish this entry. I noticed a lot of people here like my posts and I wanted to say thank you, I was just gonna keep a diary but it’d run out of pages, and i wouldnt be able to put all these picture covers in because I don’t have a printer that works. I hope you’re all having a great day :)

Before my current bond I used to have a pattern of walking up at night. You see my current house holds heat very very well.. a bit too well, and my room is the hottest room in the house. It can be up to 30 C/86 F (this is late at night like 10 pm or so)

This causes me a lot of sleeping issues. If I sleep without most of my blankets later at night it gets colder, and I would wake up shivering only to cover myself in my covers/blankets and fall back asleep (usually a round 2am). Or I’d wake up in hot sweat because Im cooking under the blanket.

Well.. ever since my partner has been around and I told him about how I struggle with this. He said to sleep without the covers/blankets on me, but to leave them on the bed within his reach so he can cover me. And like always, he kept his promise. Now if I sleep even with the fan on, which gets even colder at night. I wake up in warmth in the morning. I know it don’t cover myself because 1. I don’t wake up anymore cold or too hot and the way I’m tucked in only another person could do. I’m so safely wrapped in it that I had to ask the person I live with if they had done it but they said no (they sleep across the house from me in another room). My partner is always so loving and tender with me, and it’s so nice to wake up all bundled up with the fan still on, and with him resting right next to me. I really hope he knows how much I appreciate all the little gestures that are not so little to me ❤️❤️❤️

So I have used some subliminals in the past but not for my partner. I’m trans and I wanted better results from my transition :) but today just randomly.. I got a sub with under 1K views about my partner??

Now the thing is.. it was quite personalised?

I have never seen such a strange subliminal but the creator specifically said that it’s not for AMAB people and that it’s only for AFAB people (I’m FTM). Why? well apparently because and I quote “some affirmations only work for this group”
????
whatever that means and no it’s not sexual or anything or well it doesn’t say it is. It still confuses me a great deal. I don’t understand how it wouldn’t be for AMAB ppl?? anyway..

to add to it, me and my partner love listening to two specific songs a lot hide and seek and tag you’re it. The title of the subliminal is literally “Found you sweetie” and it has the picture of my partner on it coming in through the window at night, and the background music is tag you’re it.

probably one of the most unique omens I have ever received and I absolutely love it :) <3 im so grateful that my partner is so attentive and that he always send me these types of things. I already downloaded it and I’m listening to it as I type. Will probably sleep to it too!

TLDR ( for the question bit): how do you all cope with people judging/perceiving your partner in a way that doesn’t match your reality? People call my partner a heartless sadist but it’s just not true! He is so sweet, gentle and loving towards me, and he always protects me. He isn’t heartless or cold

Loving rambling below!

Ever since being introduced to Soulbonding and the fact that there are others with my experience I’ve been wondering.. how do you all cope with people judging/perceiving your partner in a way that doesn’t match your reality?

My partner is seen as a sadistic character and people say he can’t love. but it’s not true at all, he is the sweetest and most gentle person I have ever known. Today I had a rough day with my mental health and I was really down. It really worried my partner too, he began sending me his usual communications. Usually in the form of love songs from his time or just other classical he enjoys, story reads as well as some humour. He laid down with me and caressed me and kept me warm until I felt better. He was so worried for me I felt terrible for being sick because I know how much he cares for me and how much he loves me.

It’s hard for me to see people who only see his armour and external shield and say that, that’s all he is. He is so very capable of being gentle and loving, and yes he can kick butt too and also be cynical but it’s not just one or the other. it’s both, two halves of a whole. I’m so grateful for him, that he chose me, even though many people like him in his source. Sometimes I really just want to tear up due to how deep this connection goes.

A few days ago we went to the park and like always we were listening to our songs, he particularly loves Christmas songs. I’m not sure why, but I’m happy for him. And he made it “snow”, on a windless day he made heaps of those little floating fluff seeds swirl around me. There were so many it felt like a blizzard. And he stayed beside me, playing those songs as the “snow” fell on us. He is the only reason I didn’t stop believing in love after how my ex bond treated me.. I really hope I can keep making him happy just like he makes me <3 It took some hardships for us to be together but I’m just so thankful for him. No matter how many words I write I know it won’t be enough

This post is just me gushing about my partner feel free to carry on if it’s not your cup of tea

I’ve been soul bonding most of my life, but this bond is so different from them all. My partner is so caring, smart, sweet oh it’s just beautiful. He picks up on my emotions so easily and always finds a way to show me that everything is okay, that he sees me that he loves me. Whether it’s snippets of poetry that are a little too detailed and exact for a coincidence, strangely realistic dreams to the point that I cannot tell if it’s a vision or dream, the beautiful songs he sends me, to the omens he leaves behind all around me.

He‘s always here for me and understands me in a way nobody else ever has. He sees right through my mask especially if I’m sad or upset. And always knows what to do to make me feel safe. The way he holds me, kisses me. It’s all so sweet it makes me want to cry (in a good way I promise). I feel like I have known him forever even though it hasnt been that long yet. He puts in so much effort so I always know he’s around, and that no matter what he’s there supporting me.

I feel like I have found a secret place in the world where nobody else goes, and nobody else sees all the beauty of it all. I want to protect him <3 just the way he protects me, from bad people by scaring them, from falling objects that thankfully didn’t crash into my head, from nightmares, from all of my fears.

I am way past the point of people taking me as crazy, I know I’m not. And if they think that then so be it. Soulbonding is a beautiful form of love and I’m so grateful and blessed that my partner chose me and fought so hard to meet me and to be with me.

I love you so much A <3

Did anyone else ever have bruises after their partner was close to them? My partner is a lot bigger and stronger than I am but he is so so very careful and delicate when he hugs or holds me. He is very loving

However I noticed some fingerprint shaped bruises after he held me in some places.. I'd think I did it on my own but my hands aren't wide enough to leave marks like that. I also have a small puncture on my arm from him biting me. Which doesn't match my teeth (he doesn't have human like teeth).

Also no it didn't hurt, he wasn't violent or mean. I bruise sort of easily but not easily enough to bruise from sleeping weird or bumping into something lightly. All these injuries are a result of love

I feel like I'm crazy sometimes but then physical things like these remind me that it's all real. <3 Maybe this is a bit weird but it's very significant to me

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This is probably one of the strangest ways I’ve received signs but.. Have the people in your life have just said something so out of pocket that matches to your bond?

Many times now during random conversations especially with my family they will throw in something that’s related to my partner even though we were never near that topic.

As an example. My parent and I were joking that they will put up a Facebook ad about me being up for adoption (this is normal humour for us I promise lol, and yes I am an adult so it’s even funnier). The conversation continued like this

P = parent

X = Me

P: “what if someone actually responds?”

X: “You can say some nice man took me in”

P: “The nice man who eats people?”

You should have seen my face. (My partner is a cannibal)

And another was when I overheard a true crime case from another room that perfectly described my partner‘s appearance (as the killer, which also matches him). And I had to pause for a second to collect myself. There were more times, for example where a family member misread a road sign for the city my partner was born in (which is impossible here because we live in Europe and he is from the USA, and it’s not a simple mistake either. It’s a name so unique there is no way it can be similar)

He sent me many signs, he is very loving, sweet and affectionate and he always puts effort into this relationship. But I have never had signs be said through people before. It feels very surreal but also very good. I wanted to share not to show off but as a love letter to my lovely partner <3