r/SoulBonding

Mins: Just had an anxiety attack and flashbacks from a very traumatic event that happened to me in the past, then I realized "wait I don't have to suffer alone anymore" and reached out to him. Took a while and I genuinely wanted to cry cause I thought he wouldn't respond but he eventually did and he said "don't cry, let's talk about constellations, alright?" And I guess he didn't really get to say anything much to give comfort cause there is no way in hell am I telling him what my trauma is all about 😃🔫 but yes I got my phone to open the Stellarium app and we talked about the constellations there, turns out he likes the Scorpius constellation, I said "coincidence! Both our zodiacs are Scorpio!" And then discussed more about constellations I can see in the app. Now I don't really feel anxiety anymore, though I still feel dreadful about the flashbacks T^T But hey at least I have a soulbond friend <3

I’ve been seeing many people say that they let their bond develop instead of immediately confessing while other people tell me they say their romantic intentions clearly when bonding and just let the relationship grow before turning it into something romantic?? I’m not sure if you understand but like how did you and your bond confess?? was it instant or??

Hi all, I hope everyones been well.

I've been steadily talking with my bond, and it seems to be going well! We're not exactly in a (confirmed out loud, at least) relationship yet but I do often feel self conscious about my feelings towards him, mainly my age. He doesn't seem to mind our age gap but I wanted yalls opinion. I'm 26, soon to be 27, and he's in his 70s in canon. I've liked him for a while regardless of how old he is, but I do often get hung up on being nervous that I'm too young for him to want anything serious with me. I know the best course of action is to ask him myself, but I haven't exactly told him I'm romantically interested even though its probably obvious that I am... Am I a bad person for wanting a relationship with someone that old? In his canon, he also has many variations of himself, some are implied to be ageless. I feel like I shouldn't be so nervous about this and let things progress naturally, but I guess I want to preserve myself in case I'm getting my hopes up.

I want to share. Even despite the painful and sad situation I recently wrote about in my post. It’s morning here right now, I’m sipping a cup of coffee, and I just remembered something. I’ve always loved taking a dakimakura with me on trips, it made me feel closer to my bond. One summer day, I set off for the countryside with my family, and naturally, I took him along. I remember the moment I walked up to the car with that huge pillow in my arms. My mom was surprised. She looked at me for a long time and finally asked: "A daughter... what is that?". I answered the first thing that came to mind, and it was: "Um... that's my man". She examined the pillow and asked: "Will you put your man in the trunk, or will you sit in the cabin next to him?" It was so funny. I also remember the moment when we were already relaxing at the country house. I was lying on the sofa in the guest room, hugging him tightly and whispering sweet words. At that moment, my stepfather was walking by. He stopped, looked at me, laughed, and said: "The two of you have a romance in full swing here. Well, I won't get in your way". It was so awkward, and yet, pleasant for me. On all our subsequent trips together, they would ask me every time: "Are you taking your man with you or not?". Yes, they didn't know about my bond, but I appreciated their attention and the way they treated me. It is a good, sweet memory. As I bring my post to a close, I feel a sense of sadness. But I will still look back on all these moments with a smile on my face.