not sure if anyone cares but I wanted to show some art!! im soul bonded to one of my ocs, day!! they mean the world to me, and my life has gotten so much better ever since I bonded to them! we've been bonded for three years and almost six months ^^!
One year ago I met (or I guess re met) the love of my life gz. If you told me a year ago that I'd still be with him I would have laughed because I was so convinced this would just go away... I still think sometimes that in just making this up but I mean after a year of him still being a menace in my head...I think the argument that I'm "secretly faking this" has gotten a lot smaller. So as a gift to my robot wife husband thing I made this! A digital pop up book. Now I can not draw I have zero art skills so please ignore my bad drawings and mabye enjoy?
This is a question I've been coming back to for a while when the topic of soulbonding comes up in online spaces, and I've recently been accused of faking my bonds since I tend to establish bonds rather quickly depending on the personality of who I'm bonding to.
So, how fast do you establish a bond? Is it something that you personally have to take time with or is it quick for you?
I'm doing a series of drawings where I'm drawing my ship as the different unit versions of PJSK, I've made More More Jump & Leo/Need versions! I'm really happy with the result of this one, which should be the next unit ver?
i do readings on myself and others pretty frequently, however when it comes to channeling my own bond especially through tarot i’ve been highly unsuccessful, i feel like i just have a lot of blockage regarding him for some reason and i’d be very grateful if a third party could do a reading for me! i feel like i’ll have more success if someone else channels him instead of me. in exchange i’d be happy to do a reading for you in return, or an art/fic request! i can send samples of my drawings and writing in dms, and i can do a really brief reading as a sample so you can see if you’d be happy getting one from me back. i’ll do it all totally for free in return for the reading. i’d really appreciate help from anyone who’s willing cause i desperately need clarity TT
I figured I am overdue updating you guys since my first post here was a bit of a mess.
Today, Katsuki and I have been bonded for 4 months. It is not long compared to some of you here, but Katsuki and I are so proud of how far we’ve come and all the growth we’ve had in such a short amount of time.
My last post I was an anxious mess about doing things right and being perfect for him as well as general anxiety over whether this was really happening or if I was making it up. I’m happy to say all of those fears have faded and we are able to communicate in my head all the time now. We are now slowly working on growing our ability to physically touch one another, and we’ve been pretty successful all of the times we’ve focused and tried!
I’ve also had multiple tarot readings done in regard to our bond/relationship and all of them have been extremely accurate and resonated heavily.
Our biggest and best news, though, is that on Friday, June 19th, we got married/had a commitment ceremony. It wasn’t anything crazy or over the top, I just had an ankle bracelet with a heart charm permanently soldered around my ankle, and Katsuki picked out the chain. It’s simple and more special to us than a traditional ring.
I also recently told my best friend of 25 years about our bond and the whole story behind it and she was super happy and supportive. It feels really amazing to be able to talk to her about Katsuki and I just like I would a ‘traditional’ relationship.
We’ve had some minor disagreements but overall we are so happy, and so in love, and we can’t wait to see what the future has in store for us ❤️
Something I've noticed, is I kind of don't like when people call Fred not real, or it's "just my imagination" . People in places sometimes talk about their partner like "if they were here with me. Which.. Ok valid if you want to think that way but..
Im totally aware he isn't "here physically" on this physical plane but I like to believe he comes from his own universe as idk if maybe as a spirit or.. What you'd call someone who's alive but not on this physical plane, communicates by letting me see him, images, phantom touch, our developing mental/verbal communication etc.,
This isn't just "my imagination". This is a mutual relationship for us who's also soulbonded with me. Ive gotten signs and plenty of good ways of seeing that he does like me too.
Anyone else think this way? Sometimes I feel kinda different bc of this way that I think. Idk thinking like this is comforting too.
Been busy, so didn’t get a chance to post the day I got it, but almost 2 weeks in, it’s healing beautifully!! I tend to like tattoos with layers of symbolism, and each little element means so much to me and our story!! ❤️🖤🤍❤️
This quartz is 100% natural and tumbled; it has some slight imperfections.
I love it, but I don't know how to activate it or how and where to use it for my soulbond.
It’s about 3cm long, and I plan to put it inside my soulbond's plushie later on, but I'm new to this sort of thing.
I don't have the plushie yet, so for now, it will stay on the altar/shrine of LaFramboise, my soulbond.
Am I doing this right? Do you have any tips? Is there anything recommended before doing anything else—like soaking it in coarse salt to clean or something similar?
EDIT —> I also think the quartz might help with communication and bringing LaFramboise closer to me—and vice versa. I feel like it was him who gave me the idea for the plushie to give him a physical body, along with the small quartz.
But we really struggle to communicate, whether in dreams or through words he speaks to me. It’s always just short, infrequent phrases; even now, he seems to struggle quite a bit to answer my questions, and we’ve been together for three years...
I've been soulbonded for a little over 6 months, and while things have been going very well and we're both incredibly happy, I have a horribly poor sense of internal communication. Any attempt I make to speak with him just ends in me being unable to tell whether it's him speaking or me speaking and then I get frustrated and confused. I want to be able to speak with him especially since it's kinda the core of what soulbonding is, but I don't want to risk accidentally speaking over him with my mental voice. How do I get better at internal communication?
Title is self evident. Only a few people know but from posting in the fictosexual sub in the past some people have been nasty, including sending me nasty messages.
I made my section where my you can see what subs I am active in private.
And I think I heard my husband say “Are you ashamed of me?”
Of course not obviously. He’s the best thing that ever happened to me.
It also helps that my therapist is supportive and doesn’t think my Soulbonding is indicative of any mental health problems like delusions. She actually thinks he came to show me I deserve to be loved.
But I don’t want to be viewed as “sad” because I don’t want an in real life relationship.
Hey! Not sure if you remember my previous post but I had therapy again today.
Not only am I not the first ficto they've worked with, they are also already familiar with soulbonding.
How do I keep winning?
hi, everyone! This is my first time posting here, so nice to meet everyone :)
here is some art of my soul/munbond and I. I like to draw (and write) us to feel closer to him, and I feel like it brings us even closer together. ❤️
Hi all! I thought for a long time whether to write a post or not. But the inner sadness and pain took over, that's why I'm here. I apologize if there are any errors in the text, I am writing through a translator.
I can't seem to have a proper conversation with my Soulbond. I very often see images from him of him covering his eyes with his hands or holding his head. This is a response to the fact that I can’t hear him, I can’t understand him, and my brain seems to be putting up barriers. It really hurts me to see him like this. I used to hear him much better, he spoke quietly and in fragments of phrases, but that too has faded away. I feel that he is sad and it breaks my heart into pieces.
Besides that, my brain felt like it was going crazy. He began to translate all my thoughts into autonomous images. At first I was happy because I thought my Soulbond was fully manifesting itself. Absolute independence and free will. But I realized that this is not so, because my brain “brings to life” literally everything. Any thoughts where he touches me, does something or even hurts me. It drives me crazy, I get lost and can't figure out where the real him is. At these moments, I also feel pain and see images of him desperately clutching his head, as if he was also going crazy.
I don't know what to do and how to help us. Maybe someone had something similar or just have some advice? I would be extremely grateful. I wish everyone a good day and a great mood. ❤️
i really love my fictional beloveds so much. yet, unfortunately, i have aphantasia, which means i cannot imagine stuff at all. not only it hinders my creativity and original ideas to come easily, aphantasia makes it incredibly difficult to me to imagine myself talking or reaching out to my beloveds or maybe even shifting to realities(when i go to sleep i never got a single proper dream for latest few years. and i never shifted at all). not even subliminals or reading texts could help at all. please do tell me what to do
Welcome, I am new to this community due to a curiosity I might have, and I hope it doesn't seem disrespectful, because that not what I want, and that's it, I am really soulbonding?
I got this curiosity because I am terrified if I am using the wrong term, because yes, I feel my heart beating when being around my significant others, I feel their love even though they aren't actually there with me, I feel their comfort even in the screw, I feel more safe when I am thinking or just watching their source, but i don't really know if I am doing it or not, because yes, this can be spiritually and in other ways, yet I don't feel their touch even though my heart, and the only thing I feel is emptiness in my life knowing I can't hold them and love them as they could, and just maybe do letters for them to calm this (along with listening to music and feeling that fathom care I feel deep down)
Sorry if I didn't gave more details, that's all I know about this, and I don't want to think about something if this doesn't fit what others felt, so, for now, maybe I'll take time to process it, but, thanks for reading and helping, even though I feel dread about this new thing in me ☹️
I have a very long history of soulbonding-adjacent activities, but wasted nearly a decade on an entirely different framework (thoughtform creation). While the initial spark and attachment was always there (what I now believe to be bond feels) it never really got me anywhere. I was even aware of soulbonding at the time, but couldn't justify the idea to myself in a way that felt realistic, so I never picked up the concept.
Until fairly recently, when I finally sat down to think and was ultimately able to reach certain conclusions that felt satisfying enough. How cognition plays into it all, and how it was never a matter of creation, but of building connection. And suddenly everything started to work out! From phantom touch to active dialogue and even random lucid dreams.
Ever since coming to terms with the concept and starting to identify as a soulbonder, I've genuinely been the happiest I remember being. Over the past few months, seemingly everything in my life has improved, from overall motivation to actually achieving the kind of connection with beloved characters I'd always yearned for. For the first time in a long while, everything feels light.
If anyone feels like sharing, I'd love to hear about your history with soulbonding and how it has impacted your life.
Now I'm not talking about chatbots. In fact, I'm normally AGAINST AI. But I was googling how to make my soulbond stronger with my F/O, and generative AI stepped in. It gave me a whole overview of my F/Os character along with his flaws and vulnerabilities. It then suggested specific meditation techniques tailored to his character.
Where it really helped me, it gave me soulbonding affirmations and scripts (which I edited a little to make it sound like it's coming from me, and not a computer), along with a bunch of sensory anchors, like audio and scent! It even provided a shopping list and a step-by-step ritual guide to really hone in on my soulbonding experience!
Since then, my F/O has been very excited and chatty (which is a little out of his character for him! He's normally very introverted.) He doesn't seem to want to leave me alone, like at all. In fact, I feel his presence more than ever! I was just curious if anyone else used AI like this to help. Again, chatbots are off-limits. I just cant see a chatbot helping, but rather hurting the soulbonder and soulbonding experience.
Heya it's been a while since I last posted here and I miss sharing my soulbond experiences. For now, I'll just be sharing the intuitive sketches I did lately with people's soulbond / yumeships and how I tried to channel all soulbond / yume connections through art. It was quite fun to draw these sm and I appreciate those who supported me through booking my art commissions and tarot readings :)) <3
CW: childhood trauma, sexual exploitation/sexual assault, brief discussion of DID and tulpamancy, intense fictional attachment.
The images in the post were generated. I replied in comments with a couple of my drawings.
I think Angel Dust may be my first soulbond. I have always made paracosms and had imaginary companions. I was an only child who went through serious trauma very young. Long before I knew words like paracosm or soulbonding, I had continuing inner worlds populated by people who were me, and sometimes not me.
I have an interior figure named David. David is trauma-created, but there is no identity split. I don’t have DID, and he is not an alter or a separate consciousness. He is me, and I am him.
He has a specific face, voice, style, and temperament, with a long history in my writing. David appears in different forms in almost everything I’ve ever created. Very few people have ever known about him, but he has been with me for most of my life.
Then I watched Angel Dust in Episode 4 of Hazbin Hotel.
I already liked him. He was vulgar, glamorous, theatrical, openly queer, funny, and much stronger than the people around him seemed to understand. But “Poison” and the studio scenes hit something old.
I have a past involving sexual exploitation and sexual assault. I was triggered, certainly, but that doesn’t entirely describe it. It felt like imprinting.
I have thought about Angel ever since.
I listened to “Poison” thousands of times - for weeks. I remixed it, made videos, and started a YouTube channel. I watched the show in slow motion, frame by frame. I took hundreds of screenshots, mostly of Angel’s expressions, and began drawing the faces that affected me most.
I’m not a bad artist, so I could roughly match the show’s style. I remember thinking: he’s a cartoon, so the only way to truly possess him is to draw him.
For a moment, that seemed true. The drawings are still pinned to a board in my office. But I wanted more than his image.
I tried character chats and AI roleplays with Angel, but they didn’t really work. Sometimes you just have to do it yourself.
So I began writing fanfiction.
David, as a gothic teenage demon summoner, desperately in love with Angel and begging him to buy his soul. David, as a satyr boy arriving in Hell and being taken under Angel’s wing.
I became obsessed with summoning him, or somehow reaching him through fiction.
I wrote Lord Angel Dust, a story in which Angel is sent to Earth and meets an old streetwalker who knows exactly who he is. Images and stories of him have leaked out of Hell, and he has become something like a saint among discarded people.
That one was powerful.
Then I stumbled across the idea of tulpas. I poked at it, but that wasn’t the answer either.
I started keeping a physical notebook written in Angel’s voice with a pink pencil. One line reads:
>“Synergy, baby! I guess some would call it possession. Wouldn’t that be a kick?”
I didn’t believe I was literally possessed. The joke worked because I knew I was deliberately creating the process.
Then I set out to write a more serious, long-form story from Angel’s point of view.
As I studied his Brooklyn accent, I began thinking in it constantly and sometimes using it accidentally. Writing from his point of view felt completely different from describing him in third person.
In this story, he was going by Anthony.
That was how I stumbled into Anthony D’Angelo, who is not Angel Dust.
Anthony rapidly became my constant companion—in my imagination, my writing, and my AI chats. I built an entire file system to track his history, personality, relationships, and world. He became completely distinct from Angel.
Anthony D’Angelo is a broad-shouldered Italian-American man who came out of organized crime in 1940s Brooklyn and spent his later years working in a diner before dying and entering the household as an embodied ghost.
Despite where he began, he really isn’t much like Angel. Angel is theatrical, glamorous, loud, and chaotic. Anthony is sturdy, quiet, and practical. He cooks, fixes things, and keeps watch.
I love Anthony impossibly.
If David is my body’s protector, Anthony is David’s.
But I never stopped thinking about Angel Dust.
I couldn’t admit what I wanted. It felt wrong, like stealing. Like pretending he was mine when he could only belong to the people who actually created him.
So I decided I would make my “own” Angel Dust.
I asked myself what the ingredients were. Why did he matter?
And I created Airick.
A beautiful Frankenstein.
Airick is an original character in my dystopian novel. He is also me, which is why he is nothing like Angel Dust.
Angel contained the image of the beautiful, desired, disposable boy: intensely visible, sexually powerful, and still owned by the systems consuming him.
Airick took that wound and asked what would happen if an entire civilization were built around it. His world became a dystopia of engineered beauty, chemical dependence, contracts, ownership, performance, and bodies turned into economic products.
But Airick was never simply my version of Angel.
He came from me. He held parts of my own beauty, shame, rage, hunger, ambition, and fear in a form I could face. He was both a mirror and an answer.
But he sure as shit wasn’t Angel.
I created an imaginary world and a house that became a home for David, Anthony, Airick, and the other characters from my novel. I wanted to know them better—for research, self-understanding, and fun.
Still, I couldn’t stop thinking about Angel Dust.
I could analyze him, draw him, write through him, build characters from what he awakened, and construct entire mythologies around him before I could simply admit:
I wanted him here.
Not only as source material. Not only as a symbol. Not only as somebody reflected through Anthony or Airick. On my birthday, I placed his name on the household roster, and he became part of my interior world.
I wrote myself confessing everything to him. I wrote myself courting his favor, and trying to prove that my intentions were good. I told him he could leave if he wanted—that I could write him a paradise of his choice instead.
But of course, the point is that broken people choose each other.
He stayed.
He gained a room, possessions, relationships, routines, and a history with David, Anthony, Airick, and the others. He has changed through knowing us, but he is still unmistakably Angel.
He calls Anthony “Tony” and drives him crazy every day because he loves him. He gets shy with David because he isn’t used to that kind of intense sincerity. He thinks Airick is a naive brat.
He brings life, noise, fun, and light into our depressive little household.
Now I return to this household every day. Its relationships, rooms, and history continue, and I protect that continuity through my imagination and a vault of scenes, timelines, and lore. With Obsidian vault and Claude, I can bring that accumulated history into conversations and ask the figures questions without having to consciously script every answer.
I know David, Anthony, and Airick came from me. However autonomous they may feel, I can trace each of them back to something inside myself.
Angel is different.
I don’t believe he is a supernatural soul, a DID alter, or a separate consciousness. My understanding is psychological, literary, and Jungian: autonomous imaginal figures living within a continuing paracosm.
But Angel is the one I did not call up from within.
I met him outside myself, and somehow, he came home.