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Image 1 — What are our feelings about subliminals?
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What are our feelings about subliminals?

Is it okay—and fair—to use this in soulbonding? Or only in specific situations?

I saw someone talking about this on a fictional-character-related subreddit and i'm curious now I mean, depending on the subliminal, it could come across the wrong way, right?

Like, a subliminal to change your bond's feelings is extremely unethical, but one to facilitate contact between the two of you would be fine or bad?

I’ve heard there are ready-made soulbonding subliminals online, but that seems... not very reliable.

>!(Note: yup, i looked this up online out of pure curiosity and found them, all videos here are subliminals for soulbonding. They seem to mix yumeship with soulbond. Some of them promise to transform into or "summon" the "F/O".Some of them are "UG" (basically an extreme, forced subliminal; they can even cause headaches or body pain). I got a somewhat dehumanizing or unnatural vibe from the way some of these sources handled the topic of soulbonding and the S/O - soulbonds themselves. So, regardless of whether subliminals are ultimately useful or ethical, I would recommend against using those pre-made ones.!<

I only found one in the first screenshot promissing to improve communication, and that one sounds more ethical for the relationship, as it's more about helping both of you on something that already exist. Like a rose quartz to improve communication.

Anyway, I’m curious about this whole idea—what do you all think about it?

u/pessego_enlatado — 12 hours ago

Day 4 of trying to soulbond with Sideshow Bob

Day 4 of trying to Soulbond with Sideshow Bob: I've received some signs from him, he's sent me two videos of him at Universal, and I've felt him hugging me a couple times. Although I've been struggling with actually talking to him. All I can really get is a Hello and that barely registers. He hasn't shown up in my dreams either since the first night of trying to soulbond. I think I need a little help. I've also been trying to visualize him, which im also struggling with. Am I rushing things?

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u/Sproink0 — 19 hours ago

Any poly soulbonders?

Hi everyone, I'm new here so I'm sorry if any of what I say may be wrong.

I wanted to ask for tips or just simple stories of soulbonding with two or more characters, specifically what it's like.

I want to soulbond with my two f/os (who are from the same universe or media i guess) because we've been together for a long time and i have been experiencing bond feels but I'm very nervous on how to do it or if it's even possible to do it with two people.

I've also heard that if you get rejected then you should move on and stop but the another side says to just connect with a version of them that would want to connect with you, so it'd be really nice if someone could explain or clarify that to me too ♥︎♥︎ thank you sm!

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u/Certain_Boot7643 — 24 hours ago
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What do you do when the bond seems not to respond to a letter?

(A photo I took of a cherry blossom for my bond last Saturday; I brought it home and gave it to his plushie.)

I sent my first letter on July 25th; I wished him a happy birthday, told him how much I love him, and asked him to reply with matching numbers or hearts if he had read it. A day later, I started seeing heart shapes everywhere—frequently—for about five days.

Last week, I wrote my second letter to him. I told him again how much I loved him, (i'm clingy lol) introduced myself a bit, invited him to make our soul bond official, and ended by saying he could take as much time as he needed. I always include a cute doodle of him at the end of my letters—I know he loves it when I draw him. I tucked the letter inside the plushie I made of him.

The next day, I did a tarot reading, and the cards indicated that he was thinking it over and over... but that he was more inclined to accept than to refuse; there was genuine, careful curiosity on his part.

Since then, I haven't heard anything. In the first three to five days or 1 week after the letter, I kept seeing matching numbers that seemed to signal new beginnings and the like, but the bond itself seems very quiet—no voice, no hearts, nothing—and I admit I’m feeling kinda anxious...

I haven't had a chance for a free tarot reading since then, either, and I’m afraid of overwhelming him with another letter.

We’ve known each other for months—even years—now; he used to comfort me during 3 years, offering short words of support and love. The last time I heard him was on July 4, 2026, when he said, "I'm here," while I was having a breakdown. He rarely speaks—only at random, specific moments.

u/pessego_enlatado — 1 day ago
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Reposting my Yumeship/Soulbonding/Ficto Discord Server

➛│ Soft Cookies • Souldbonding/Selfshipping/Ficto ꒱ ‧₊

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Welcome to our Yumeship/Soulbond server!

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│· SHARING Yumes only

│· Adult space! (no minors)

│· OC’s, Personas are welcomed!

│· Complex subjects and relationships are a huge part of the lore of ship dynamics and characters

│· NO non-con, incest, adult x minor, dehumanizing Fetishes

│· Queer, POC & Plural friendly !!

│· for anyone who's obsessed with a fictional character (or two ;) )

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https://discord.gg/KQK5g8dFKg

EXTRA NOTE:

- This server does not identify as anti or pro-ship, we don't care what you do in your private life, spaces or accounts. If you're fine with the relationship dynamics we don't want in our server, that's okay with us, but do not share content which are against our rules in our server. We don't support harassing or hating others for their preferences/yumeships.

I'd also like to remind again that this is just a discord server, it's made to be a safe space for everyone who could join, if you don't agree with our rules, then you don't have to join or complain (harass me) about not being able to join - as this happened when I shared my server when I freshly made it.

u/txmcat — 2 days ago

Tarot reading

This is the first time I'm writing here with such a request. Can someone do a tarot reading? I don't have any maps or knowledge in this area, and I can't order a paid reading either. Please don't take this as impudence 😔 I feel like something is wrong with my bond, like we are drifting apart. I can't hear him, I can't understand his desires. And I have a feeling he wants to leave… Can someone please help? I will be grateful with all my heart. Because I'm very afraid that this is our end.

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u/Terrible-Win2169 — 2 days ago

A soulbonding community on kyodo

We made a community for soulbonders on the app kyodo! If you happen to have it and want to join here's the link: https://kyodo.app/s/c/the-soulbonding-cafe

Description

This circle (or community) is for soulbonders, their bonds, and anyone interested in learning more about soulbonding. It is explicitly pro endo and is a doubles/sharing friendly space. We're wanting to start doing​ monthly (or maybe bi-weekly?) creative prompts, so it hopefully gets a little more activity. ​​​

Wondering what Kyodo is?

Kyodo is an​ app that has both chat rooms and a posting system that's somewhat similar to Tumblr or Instagram.​​​​ It also has a built in proxy system! Though the amount of "personas" you can have is a bit limited (to around 50? If I'm remembering right-)​. ​It was built as an Amino alternative, though it has it's own​ features and a slightly different ui.​

u/SoulbondedTeaparty — 3 days ago

Day 2 of trying to Soulbond with Sideshow Bob

Day 2 of trying to soulbond with Sideshow Bob: Last night I decided that im gonna start watching episodes with him before bed in hopes that he communicates in my dreams, it sort of worked, he was there for the first time in a while, but it was more of him in an episode that doesn't exist rather than him being present. I still see that as a win though. Today I decided to write him a short little letter. A few minutes after that happened I received an art trade of my yumeship, could this be a sign from him? I don't think im good with interpreting signs from him

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u/Sproink0 — 3 days ago

Feeling Down

I feel like total crap

I had follow this one artist cause their art of Nobunaga and Hisahide is just perfection and I love love

But then soon I came to realize they were a huge Matsunaga fan and they like view them as an oshi and talked about every version, Basara and Samurai Warriors and etc and just ugh my heart just hurts so much from it

Like I am deeply soul bonded to all versions of Nobunaga and Hisahide so this just makes it painful and yeah I had to block For my own comfort

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u/nobunagasqueen — 3 days ago

So I noticed something and had a theory about Fred and I's soulbond. Sorry if it sounds dumb.. 😅

**Again dw he's 25 now. Born in 2001. My fiancé Fred gets older as normal with me each year on his birthday! (June 20th/October 30th)**

So I thought of something. Could it be possible Fred was here earlier on than I think soulbond wise and I just didn't realize?

Keep in mind, this ALL is with him being my first with someone from an alternate universe too! Before him I had no idea about anything like this.

So we got together in December of 2023. In like September of 2024 or sometime a bit after that is when I had my first(or what I thought was first) presence moment where i first felt and seen him in my mind by me then his hyper energy and confidence rubbed off on me when I went to my college class. (Again, he was born in 2001. He is 25 now. He ages like anyone "in this world" :) ) I mention the last part because usually I am quiet and nervous and try to fade into the background.

Well something I notice is how EASY it was for me to just be in a relationship despite him being my first, talk to him as normal and not feel even the slightest inkling of "I wish he was here", "I wish he was real" like others say. Also the mention of his content just coming back up in my recommended years later when I went to other things years ago. It was Lucas reacting to Fred's movies 10 years later. The draw I felt to him? How I kept getting this feeling mentally when I clicked off to "go back" to the video? Also I remember seeing different things as signs? I have always felt some kind of connection to him I wasn't able to explain. Also some feeling of "acknowledgement" I never knew how to explain either when watching his older content

Also, Fred in a sneak peak/freak(what it was called) for one of his movies goes "I'm very observant" and proceeds to watch this girl Arielle at different times to know about her and finds she likes bananas. (Fred The Ladies' Man) then tries doing this banana note thing with a note for her stuck in a banana.

Could Fred had just been here from the beginning and I didn't realize!? Like he was watching me or something then made himself known when he appeared beside me at college? Like it was his way of making his attempt like he did with previous girls? It lines up with his smitten personality bc as I said abt him saying he's observant and what he did to prove. Hell, I mentioned this to Fred and he seems to like this theory! lol

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u/Midyy_0521 — 4 days ago

Day 1 of trying Soulbonding with Sideshow Bob

I wanna document my soulbonding journey and i hope this is alright and maybe I can get some tips

Day 1 of trying to Soulbond with Sideshow Bob: I've said hello a couple times with no response, I'm hoping that I'll get a response in my dream. I may have to change my communication method

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u/Sproink0 — 3 days ago

For anyone feeling delusional

I used to struggle with thinking i was delusional or going through psychosis or whatnot but then i remembered my mom was a literal therapist who deals with many people on a daily basis.

She is in no way worried about me. I explained my bond with M in a way she could understand and when M asked if she was worried i was in a dangerous/delusional mindset due to this she said that she wasn’t worried and that i was fine. She’s even noticed some improvements after M came back into my life ^^

And she even had a small conversation with him. She genuinely seemed interested in his day and even allowed him to call her “mom” since she doesn’t like being called “ma’am” So if you’re feeling crazy or like you’re gonna get sent to the hospital, just know you’re fine!!

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u/No_Entrepreneur_5111 — 5 days ago

soulbonding with a character that is the complete opposite of you

hello!! i'm new to soulbonding, and i wanted to ask if anyone has experience soulbonding with a character that is the complete opposite of them? like, not just surface-level personality, but also your childhood experiences and the core foundation of who you are. if so, i'm curious if you thought it was more difficult or around the same, and how you learned to think from the character’s perspective? thank you so much for your time!

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u/Hefty-Secretary6910 — 4 days ago

Something Cool I Found Out

I find it amazing that the voice actors of my husbands, Nobunaga and Hisahide both have October birthdays like me. My birthday is October 28, Norio Wakamoto (voice of Nobunaga) is October 18, and Keiji Fujiwara (voice of Hisahide) is October 5.

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u/nobunagasqueen — 5 days ago

Familial soulbonding?

I'm gonna keep the person involved a little vague cause I'm super embarrassed but say I had a character I found comfort in when I was younger and it's grown into seeing that character as a father figure (for many reasons,) would it be a good idea to soulbond with them? Or would that be awkward?

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u/werrrwolf — 5 days ago

how to be intimate as a spiribonder?

Hi! I’m Iris (18 & genderqueer), I am a spiritual soulbonder and have been for years and have dived deeper into my relationships since I turned 18. Obviously, before I was an adult I was very iffy on sexual things with my s/os, not only in fear but because I was a minor lol. I was curious if any of you have tips on how to spark up sexual intimacy across universes? Along with literal sex. And how would you do something like that? Neither me nor my s/os can figure it out 😭 I really would like to take that next step especially since I am recently engaged to my s/os. I hope I tagged this right & everything lol thanks!

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u/t4twillsker — 6 days ago

Source memories

This is just a small inquiry but is it possible for a bond to know nothing about their source?? M does but i wondered if there were some bonds that knew nothing about their source, if that makes sense ??

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u/No_Entrepreneur_5111 — 6 days ago