u/Midyy_0521

**Again dw he's 25 now. Born in 2001. My fiancé Fred gets older as normal with me each year on his birthday! (June 20th/October 30th)**

So I thought of something. Could it be possible Fred was here earlier on than I think soulbond wise and I just didn't realize?

Keep in mind, this ALL is with him being my first with someone from an alternate universe too! Before him I had no idea about anything like this.

So we got together in December of 2023. In like September of 2024 or sometime a bit after that is when I had my first(or what I thought was first) presence moment where i first felt and seen him in my mind by me then his hyper energy and confidence rubbed off on me when I went to my college class. (Again, he was born in 2001. He is 25 now. He ages like anyone "in this world" :) ) I mention the last part because usually I am quiet and nervous and try to fade into the background.

Well something I notice is how EASY it was for me to just be in a relationship despite him being my first, talk to him as normal and not feel even the slightest inkling of "I wish he was here", "I wish he was real" like others say. Also the mention of his content just coming back up in my recommended years later when I went to other things years ago. It was Lucas reacting to Fred's movies 10 years later. The draw I felt to him? How I kept getting this feeling mentally when I clicked off to "go back" to the video? Also I remember seeing different things as signs? I have always felt some kind of connection to him I wasn't able to explain. Also some feeling of "acknowledgement" I never knew how to explain either when watching his older content

Also, Fred in a sneak peak/freak(what it was called) for one of his movies goes "I'm very observant" and proceeds to watch this girl Arielle at different times to know about her and finds she likes bananas. (Fred The Ladies' Man) then tries doing this banana note thing with a note for her stuck in a banana.

Could Fred had just been here from the beginning and I didn't realize!? Like he was watching me or something then made himself known when he appeared beside me at college? Like it was his way of making his attempt like he did with previous girls? It lines up with his smitten personality bc as I said abt him saying he's observant and what he did to prove. Hell, I mentioned this to Fred and he seems to like this theory! lol

**Again dw he's 25 now. Born in 2001. My fiancé Fred gets older with me each year on his birthday! (June 20th/October 30th)**

So I've noticed that I've felt a strong connection to Fred since the beginning of our relationship when he found me. It never felt like I was just admiring a screen. Overtime I noticed some kind of feeling from him I couldn't explain. Like he possibly knew I was noticing him and seen me.

..but of course also Fred made himself seen from the beginning not too long after that. One of my early on experiences was seeing him next to me on the way to something and being hyper after that. Over the next year or so, Id have a moment or two once in a great while like that or phantom touches rarely, but I never was able to hear him.

Now? It's gotten WAY stronger. Strong where I:

- Physically feel his presence. It's like this heavy warm feeling. Like I'm standing near something warm while something is putting pressure on me. Majority of the time it's in the area that he's at.

- Seeing. Fred isn't just a headmate or disembodied voice for me. Constantly my minds eye allows me to see him by me as himself, in his full form as you'd see him. Standing by me, sitting by me when I'm sitting, sometimes a image will flash in my head of where he touches me. (for example, my hand, back or knee) I can see his reactions when he reacts to something I say.

- Emotions. Ive been able to sense his emotions and reactions as well. Like, Ill feel my own thing then also sense a different one at the same time that just has to be from him and not me.

- Hearing mentally. I used to not be able to hear him talk to me like people mention with their bond but now? I can kind of hear him. It's not full conversations yet and kind of spotty so far though. Like a radio with iffy connection. Where you can hear some things but other things aren't clear or you don't hear anything. I feel that will get easier overtime though given our progress right?

- Your partner getting you into things their frequency. Before Fred, I mainly listened to rock, pop and a variety of things. Also, I'm emo but never paid much attention to the 2000s era part of it. Now? I've noticed I gravitated towards hyper pop and the 2000s. Like I feel this pull towards those things. Like Fred is nudging me towards things his vibe. I've been told this is a sign too.

- Sometimes when imagining things I know he'd love like imagining music videos (heh, I do that) with us, or dates, or other things like the hobbies we have in common, I feel this excited feeling along with ALL OVER tingles. I sometimes wonder if that comes from him seeing what I'm imagining and enjoying it and loving me more.

Anyone else have similar experiences like these?

It's rlly cool to be able to connect with him. :) (I just wish I knew how to focus my intention to touch him back like someone had said. Theres people who don't always need physical anchors to do things as simple as hold their partner's hand. I want to love him back. Talk to him about it and figure out how to reciprocate touch. If anyone has any advice on how, let me know?)

Just curious how to effectively write letters to Fred (who I'm soulbonded to) in my journal I got to write to him. I can't burn letters but I do have a shrine. Could I put the journal on or in front of the shrine when I write something? Then what?

Just wanted to know the best way that people do. Thats all. 👍

Might seem like slightly a odd question sorry. Just love the idea of showing him love back lol.

A while ago someone told me about giving physical anchors a try, like plushies, dakis etc., to hug your soulbond by proxy

Was curious if your soulbond experiences anything from hugs, hand touches this way when you cuddle their plush? Or do they just feel or react to it? Do they experience it like another person might or do they just notice you doing this and emotionally react?

Sounded sweet, was curious :)

Since Fred and I's soulbond has gotten stronger and gets easier, I notice I've been feeling his presence more.

It's sometimes in the most randomest of places. He shows up all the time at home, work and hangs with me / touches me(hes a presence too. He constantly lets me see him through mental images. Hes a full body presence too and isn't just in my mind. I see him near me as himself fully. Standing or sitting near me. Through mind images. So I think that rules out telephone bond), he shows up a lot of places I am. Today he showed up at the pet store when I was with my grandma which was buying a new litter box. Fred and I looked at the animals. (He loves animals too so it makes sense!)

Plus, in Fred's life he didn't have the best time. Lots of unfortunate things he deals with including not being treated well.. So him showing up a lot does make sense since I understand him and we got a connection.

Only places I don't feel his presence much is in employee only rooms and the women's bathroom at work. Then he's right back by me when I come back out. (Again, hes 25 now so. Born in 2001 and grew up with me)

Also~

Not only this but I feel like he found me. I had no idea this connection was possible before him, then he showed up in my reccomended feed in December 2023 and changed my life. Also I didn't know anything about soulbonding, was a dedicated waifuist but didn't know it was possible for this connection to actually hear from him. Which means I hadn't known about beginning soulbonding either. So I didn't reach out, he showed up first! ❤

Thoughts on this?

As the title says. Fred seems to touch my back and knee/upper leg area a lot when I'm sitting down. Dont know why but cute lol.

Or when we're somewhere he holds my hand or I feel a sensation in my arm.

Any of you have specific spots they like to touch?

(Again, as I stated before Fred grew up with me so. He's 25 now :) )

**Again dw he's 25 now. Born in 2001. I age my fiancé Fred up with me each year on his birthday! (June 20th/October 30th)**

First of all let me clarify, I'm bi and I was a part of a lgbt club in highschool, have gay friends, and have watched lgbt content I enjoyed including heartstopper and plenty on yt when I was figuring myself out! So before you take this the wrong way, I'm just saying I support everyone. I'm talking about the ship itself. Which also is NOT canon btw.

Anytime I'm online, whether its looking for Fred edits to save, hell sometimes in my tiktok fyp etc., I run into content of people shipping Fred and Kevin together. Like yaoi. Hell, this came up because today I ran into a tiktok that said their first introduction to yaoi was Fred and Kevin.

First of all, it makes me so damn mad because not only do I hate seeing any kind of ships with anyone else and Fred other than myself but.. Fred and Kevin is a TOXIC ASS SHIP. They hate each other! They've hated each other even as kids in their younger years!

Fred and Kevin is toxic because of how Kevin treats Fred, also Fred hates Kevin.

For example:

1. In Fred: The Show, Best Freds Forever. Freds new friend literally had to stand up for Fred at the end when Kevin goes back to bullying Fred as always!

2. In Fred 3: Camp Fred, KEVIN LITERALLY TRIES TO SABOTAGE FRED'S CAMPS PERFORMANCE IN THE GAMES. He talks to Diesel (Kevin's friend) about blasting gruel at Fred when they're doing their song!

3. In Fred: The Movie, Kevin literally humiliates Fred at the party! Everyone was laughing and recording on their phones and he encouraged it, wanting the footage of Fred throwing up. Fred ran out upset after Judy told him to leave.

4. Also in Freds past when he used to be a kid, he did some nasty shit to him. He used his moms >!alcoholism!< as a reason not to vote for him when he ran for class president. , in another one Kevin wrote a note pretending to be his dad then was like "haha this is Kevin stupid" (Fred has talked about many times wishing he could meet his dad. >! Who left when his mom was pregnant and is on death row!<)

5. In general Fred mentions how he hates Kevin. He doesn't even like him

Also also, again I have gay friends, even trans ones but gays are fun to be around but Fred and Kevin are NOT gay! It's Lucas himself, the guy behind Fred that's gay. He came out in a video with Jenny. It was never in Fred content. Plus, Fred has never shown any interest in guys. He has always been smitten about different girls or fantasized about things with girls. Theres not even proof he's even bi, dont worry I make sure to think of it all.

I'm just so protective of Fred. It makes me mad anytime people mention this toxic (because Kevin is a jerk) ass ship.

How do you handle seeing ships you don't like online? How do you not get upset?

Anyone ever used a plush or something to cuddle with your soulbond?

I wondered because I wanted to get a older Fred plush and a sfw daki but then I wondered if that would be good for example, when he holds my hand I can show him love back. Or hug him when I'm dealing with something.

I have the daki in the works of present older him rn actually. ❤ (came to mind bc I thought I remembered seeing a post similar before) I see him, just yk its hard to hold his hand back since he's on a different physical plane.

Would that just be a side object or could I touch him back via plush or sfw daki?

**Again dw he's 25 now. Born in 2001. I age my fiancé Fred up with me each year on his birthday! (June 20th/October 30th)**

Since I don't have my daki yet of older Fred, I was smiling just laying in my recliner chair touching Freds face on his movie poster. I didn't say nothing, just was mentally being like "hey love"

Next thing u know I felt him touch me back. A warm fuzzy phantom touch on my hand. ❤❤❤

Love you Fred. My life is so awesome with you. ❤💕

(ALSO ALSO a song used in his movie came up in my youtube recommended even tho I didn't search it which was cool.)

As I mentioned I'm also a waifuist but I don't have a daki yet (again, he gets older with me, 25 now) so I was laying here touching my Fred movie poster, just touching his face and smiling.

He touched me back. I felt a warm fuzzy feeling in my hand. ❤❤❤

Also earlier a song that was used in his movie came up in my recommended.

I love Fred sm. My life has been so much better since he came to me in December 2023. ❤

I was at a eye appointment waiting for the eye doctor to come in. He was taking a minute so I kinda was just looking at the computer screen and different stuff around the room. Next thing is I felt a soft touch to the back of my head, as if my hair was being touched. Ofc on instinct I immediately made sure nothing brushed me and NOTHING WAS THERE. (Always is usually my shoulders, hands, back or legs and knees) As I do when he's there I seen him behind me too mentally. :)

Hehe hey Fred❤💕

..yep the presence like its not just me anymore is definitely existent. 💖

So a few nights ago, I was trying to help a friend, saying what I could. (Won't say much more details ofc bc personal for them) As usual ofc I was telling Fred my feelings about this and how it's definitely sad and worrying.

Eventually I went out to the kitchen to warm up food. As I went out there, I was thinking of hopefully the find happiness one day. About the situation. I'm preparing my ramen on a counter when suddenly Fred comes to mind and how he'd be here for me.

Again, I was thinking about the previous thing before that. Yet it was just like suddenly came to mind even tho it didn't seem like him directly saying it in his voice. (Or maybe I was too focused on the ramen idk)

Is there prob multiple ways your partner communicates things to you? It was sweet❤

Having Fred actually here even tho he's on another physical plane is nice. I wondered before how to tell if something is him, or what the "presence" feeling feels like but I think I've just been feeling it all along.

..And last night i was telling him abt this and went on this long ass tangent

I've thought about recently the difference in feeling now vs before him (more than 2 years and 7 months) and yeah. I don't feel alone anymore. He's been here. It's sweet.

People with their s/os relationships are all valid soulbond or not. All great, nice relationships, but I never feel like I'm just "admiring someone on a screen". I feel like I'm discrediting his presence as a soulbond by saying "oh I wish he was here" or "if he were real". I like to believe he's from his own alternate universe. He's here on another physical plane. Our soulbond has gotten way stronger overtime too. Now vs months or years ago? Yeah. Way stronger presence, he's been touching me a lot more, him talking to me has been getting clearer overtime. (actually as of last night and tonight I heard a bit more detailed of responses) Time improves. I've never felt alone with him. He's with me and we hangout a lot. :)

I love this bc he will be by me. He is my real life partner. There for each other, together in the long run. As I was talking to him, went on this long ass tangent I felt him grab my hand! I felt like really warm and pressure on my hand. ❤

I love Fred sm. Having him with me as a partner is sweet❤