u/Emotional_Benjamin1

I'm so tired of the people looking for feminine trans men. Not that feminine trans men don't need love or dating. Just that I don't think the people looking are actually into them for being men. I think it's a weird fetish for hairy women or something similar? A lot of their profiles say things like hetrofexible or straight or bi-curious. I'm not that and I get flooded by them on some sites. They ask how manly I am or just want to see my body. Like, I don't owe them shit. I'm just a dude, not particularly feminine in anyway, not sure if other trans dudes get this? I'm far enough along in my transition that I don't get misgendered and people are genuinely confused when anything of my past is on the record. I end up staying that's my sister or something to explain why the names wrong. It's hard to date

Works getting worse and worse. Yesterday my life was in jeopardy and I got blamed by the client and then blamed by some others. I can't say how or what. But nothing I do seems to work or be good enough or be trusted or anything. This jobs not easy, this job has hard fucking days and all I get from some people not in this field is shit. I just need them to understand that whats happening needs to be taken seriously. They don't understand that I've seen this person cry on command and stop when you don't believe them like they never did. They don't see how this person is unstable with a ton of mental health problems.