u/Emotional_Disaster36

From last year my way of living is not going very well.

So this morning I have a thought what if 'I don't repay my house expenses due to loan emi'

What if ' I lost my position in jobs due to a house problem, can't focus on the job'

What if ' I am not able to marry a partner '

What if 'I try so hard about my dreams but getting failed many times,I lost to myself '

What if ' I live alone,is it enough to be alive '

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So guys is it the end of how to become a failure or the ultimate fall after getting up to reach the stars?

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What is your opinion about it?

Pata hai aaj kya hua, Due to my reservation ticket not confirmed i will travel in the general compartment.

From Gaya station in the early morning one creepy uncle came to the general compartment seat near me.

Now the story i have seen that guys go to meet at DD Upadhayay Junction some women which he name have krush, i am definitely sure that is his extra marital affair with , because i just seen one or two quick message they are talking about make excuses to home about bathing come to me.

After uncle chit chat they saw return journey train availability from DDU to Gaya.

Then most disgusting things happened which I observed,in both sides of the seat total 10 passenger seats including me and pervert uncle.

So he starts watching One tagalog dark fantasy movie 'your mothers son'.

In this movie there are many semi nudity scenes there which he watches with fellow passengers.

I haven't ever seen this type of person in my whole life.

Hi everyone,

I’m 28M and currently at a crossroads.

1.I’ve reached a point where I’m financially ready to start building my own house, but I’m also feeling missing some part of being on the "borderline" age for Arranged Marriage (AM).

I’m struggling with the sequence of things and could use some perspective:My initial plan was to finish the house first and then start looking for a partner. However, I’ve realized that finding a suitable partner can take a significant amount of time—sometimes a couple years, because I work mostly outside of the hometown.If I wait until the house is 100% complete, I might be 30 or 31 before I even start the search.

2. Outsourcing the Search

My parents are after completed the house used our relative network to find matches. I’m wondering: Should I stay purely dependent on them and the traditional "relative network"? Or should I take the initiative myself (Matrimonial apps, etc.) while the house is under construction?

3. The Dilemma

The Risk of Waiting: If I wait for the house, I might "age out" of some preferences in the AM market.

The Risk of Doing Both: Managing a construction project and the emotional rollercoaster of meeting potential partners sounds exhausting.

My Questions to the Community:

Is 28 too late to "start" building a house if I want to be married by 30?

For those who built a home after marriage, was it easier to do it as a couple?

How much should I rely on my parents/relatives vs. looking on my own?