u/Empty-Cup3785

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1. Customer support job at Tech mahindra (day shift)

2. Work at BDA( banglore development authority).Govt job. Its just random office work like documents scanning and stuff. Very chill and zero stress. 23k salary .

3. Gave an interview at a startup for software trainee role. They haven't updated yet if I'm selected or not, but I mostly am, though its not confirmed yet.

I'm interested in coding, but I have not had much luck getting a software job, couldn't even get an internship despite trying and having done a few projects too.

I have really insane pressure from parents, mom is constantly pressurising to marry even though I'm not interested(desi girl problems). They don't support me financially much as well, I have to beg for even basic stuff.

So this is my story. I am 22f. I'll soon graduate Btech from a shit tier college. I couldn't get placed, didn't have much opportunities at college tbh and i also lacked skills to get offcampus. I tried like hell to get a job, because I fucking hate asking a penny from my parents who are always guilt tripping me even if I ask a 10 rs.. I even got a 20k job, its no way related to my field(CS) but yeah, its still a job. I've always been very ambitious in life. I had a lot of dreams. I want to crack Gate exam with good score and get into masters. Not just about dreams, I simply don't wish to even think of marriage right now as I'm still figuring out a lot of things. I have a really bad anxiety issue as well. My parents all the time only think of marriage. My mom directly says, "please allow us to get rid of our responsibility". I feel like such a burden when I hear this. I feel broken inside. They keep ranting about marriage every now and then. Trying to introduce me to random guys(usually relatives) saying they are interested in me. I hate all of this shit. I am going through the worst phase of my life where I still don't have a proper job, getting pushed for marriage, struggling with mental health issues. I haven't even got my period since last 3 months, don't know why. I feel like killing myself each day and I'm regretting my existence every second.

So I applied for this company through a job portal. They called me today for an interview at their office. Initially they told that there will be 3 months of training which is unpaid, then based on performance they would convert it into an internship with 12k stipend. Then again after 3 months they would convert it to full time(performance based ofcourse). I don't have any offer now, I'll be graduating next month itself so I agreed and went for the interview. They asked basic coding questions. I could answer easily. Then he explained their company projects.

After a few hours I got a call from HR saying I'm selected for the final HR round tomorrow and because I'm already familiar wth coding they'll directly give me the paid internship. I was really happy.

Then I just checked their reviews and they only had one glassdoor review. It was posted on 2024 by someone, they said they never got paid their salary even after working for 5 months.

Now I'm again feeling the same hopelessness as before. Should I accept this offer or try elsewhere.

I am a 2026 passout. I love coding, have done projects in MERN stack. Recently I got a job at a IT firm. Its a small company, pay is also less(20k p.m) and my role is project coordinator. Basically I'll be like an assistant to the ceo. Interacting with the clients, requirements gathering,etc. Its similar to business analyst. I have not had any luck in getting a developer job till now, despite trying. My parents are pressuring me to join this job, as I don't have any offers in hand. The company is also asking me to sign a 2 years bond. I really don't know what to do, pls help me!