Boyfriend has been being aggressive outside of sex
Hi guys, me(19f) and my boyfriend(19m) have a sub/dom relationship and he’s extremely aggressive in bed, hitting, slapping, choking, the whole nine yards. I love being corrected in a sexual sense like when I mess up and stuff like that but recently he’s being slapping me or usually grabbing my throat when he’s angry with me in general, I just don’t know if that’s a normal thing or if I should be worried?? I feel like I’ve been walking on eggshells lately because it really hurts and I don’t know if it’s something I should bring up or if I’m overreacting, thank you for any advice in advance:)
Edit:the incident that made me post happened the other night, we were in the shower and we were arguing about something(I genuinely cannot remember what) and he reached out with both hands and squeezed my throat till my knees started to give out and my vision almost went away. He grabbed me up immediately and held me and apologized and told me how scared he was that he’d really hurt me. That’s the most extreme thing he’s done so far but he seemed really regretful so I just don’t know