u/EnidEnvy

I’m 44, and my menstrual cycle is like clockwork. Literally never late.

My period is a week late. I took a test today and it’s negative.

We had unprotected sex about two and a half weeks ago.

I know I’m at an age where a lot of people experience perimenopause. As far as I know, it’s not something I’ve been experiencing.

And now I feel like I’m being mentally tortured waiting to see if I could be pregnant or not.

And if I’m not, I’m going to take it really hard.

I have become buddies with my friends niece in rural Western Ghana.

I want to send her a package with some treats and things in there.

Any recommendations on what a 14 year old girl in that area of Ghana would like to receive?

Also, if I wanted to ship something “hazardous” like a small perfume, what carrier is the best? I also want to make sure
I use a carrier where I can pay all customs and what not, so she can just receive and enjoy her present.

Thank you so much for your advice!