u/EntertainmentEasy141

Hi everyone! I think this is the perfect place to rant about my evangelical family.

I have two sisters, i am the youngest (29) and me and the middle one lets call her N (34) are not christian (i do believe in God but in my own way. My oldest sister S (36) has gone off the rails in my opinion.

A few years back she got baptized, broke up her 10 year relationship then got married to a slow guy (my age) she met on a christian dating app. They got engaged after 2/3 months and married within the year, it all had to be free or at least super cheap and they got it done, because of God ofc. During all the planning we heard a-lot about husbands family and how fucked up they were, the poor guy supposedly had a demon when he was 14 (he had psychoses obv) and his mother was the worst according to my sis. My sis broke his whole family, and her own friendships over this wedding.

Well the wedding happend and i accepted the guy, if my sister is happy, i am happy, that is UNTIL she told us he was POSSESSED AGAIN! She told N and me about how he pushed her to the ground and how his tummy was moving like there was something in there, that is until my (disgusting) daddy drove the demon out of him and saved them, omg, thats great! Later my mom told me the husband didnt just push her to the floor but he tried to kill her on the bed, i asked my sister if that was true but i never got a clear answer… Later he also hit the car window out and that was without a demon so idk. She called the cops and stayed in airbnbs for a while before going back.

So now i just dont have a lot of contact and in our family it is normal to just fake be happy about everything.

About three months ago me and my sisters went out to dinner for their birthdays and to chat. My sister told me about how she thought she was pregnant bcs her body was doing some weird (milky) things, which is not normal. She told us about a dream she (and more people from church) had about having a baby boy and that he is going to be special. And I also dreamt about her having a child, but also about me having a child so i told her lmao.

Well, she was not preggo, but then…. I got pregnant, oeps.

I was not planning for it, the condom broke or leaked idonno. But i am super super happy, i always wanted to be a mom, and my boyfriend is great so i am thankful.

I told my family a couple of weeks ago with a cake with a photo of me on it saying the due date. And i was SHAKING, so scared i hurt my sister with this news. Well fake happy family was super happy for me and everything but i havent heard from them at all. My sister only asked for the digital photo of me.

So fun part on the day of telling everyone;
I asked what they think the gender of the baby will be, i told them i really have the feeling it is a boy (not for weird cultish reasons, just a feeling and its gonna be one or the other soo..) and my sister told me yeah its a girl and she told me that a feeling is different than seeing a babies face in a dream, bcs she saw her babies face in a dream but oh it could also be the second or third baby she saw in her dream. So i said yeah, it could be. That night i dreamt about seeing my babies face and feeding him lol. I woke up still not convinced God showed my baby bcs dreams are weird and especially when pregnant.

I am happy with my sister N, she will always be there for me, also my boyfriends family is great so i am lucky to have all of them. It just sucks to not be able to tell my family how stupid they are (my mom and dad fully support the marriage and they have little family dinners together).

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