Do you think that you can be attractive , funny , nice , and a human of high value yet still struggle to find someone who loves you back? Have you experienced it ? Rejected all the time? In a loveless relationship? Or just ain’t lucky enough to be present in this world?
A girl i know asked me out , Since i find her pretty i agreed on trying it out . So we spoke for a month , we never went on a date or anything it was either messages or casual talks irl . During this month she would do weird stuff like not answering for the whole day , leaving me on delivered while posting story , then apologize later saying that she had studies or sumn . I told her that she can tell me if she changed her mind and she replied that she wanted this and that she would have said it the moment she felt like it if it was the case .
Nothing really changed and she kept ghosting so i ended things today . Have you ever been in this situation?
-It feels like being on auto pilot
-Weak short term memory
-lost creativity
-Can’t come up with jokes anymore
-Coming up with a reply to someone irl is either going to feel like hell or unsatisfaction
-emotional numbing ( i don’t find joy anymore in things i used to like , i don’t find jokes funny , i cant feel the fun when I’m supposed to)
People who don’t go out , don’t follow trends , quiet , and simple . Are you in a relationship?
Question to both men and women , how many times did someone you had interest in said no to you ?
I hit every muscle group 2 times a week , i started to notice recently that my muscles ( mainly my chest ) are looking more flat , my sleep quality is has also became low due to work .
Should i take a period off? If so how much?
I can’t tell my EQ in numbers but i can describe them ,
My erections are weak no matter the circumstances wither I’m watching porn or not , morning woods are the weakest and most uncomfortable to feel ( the resistance of my boxers and sheets feels like a rock is on my penis) , the tip is as big as flaccid ( sometimes fuller when I’m aroused a lot ) , my carpus spongiusom is completely flat , not girthier than my finger .
Flaccid pretty shriveled as well , and my testicles appear to match the whole thing too .
I know I’m one of the worst cases here but i hope i can find people who had it like me and found a way out .
My friend likes a girl in his class , he knows her superficially yet he insists on the idea to ask her to go out on a date as a confession rather than getting to know her and wither shes interested in the first place.
I’m not a runner , but i do sprint in my cardio workouts .
Does doing at night any different from the day?
What would you do if you find out that your partner has hid something they did or used to do about you out of shame or fear of losing you?
Did you lose your emotions or pleasure in things that you used to like after getting into a toxic relationship or getting rejected many times? If so did you overcome it?
I had a crush on this one girl lets call her X,
X seemed to have some interest in me as well her hints are mostly trying to touch hands or feet whenever shes close enough or staring (i mean staring without even blinking ) into my soul this usually happens in transport (tram,bus…) . We never spoke tho , i finally decided to message her so i sent a follow request and as i expected she immedietly accepted , we spoke for days and it didnt take me long to tell her straight forward that i liked her for some time . She said that she would want to get to know each other first , obviously both of us wants to . We speak for 2 months she seems very nice and intressted but what gave me the ick that shes the type that plays hard to get and that shes the type of girl with fake entitlement , the type who wants you to buy her the last iphone and a v8 german car and calls it bare minimum and some other stuff that i dont need to mention . So after thinking about it i told her that we are not for each other but would love to still be friends . She wasted no time and blocked me.
I genuinely wanna know if what i did was rude/wrong?