I like y'all here on Reddit.
This is a new account coz my first one wasn't anonymous and it was obvious🤣
But anyway
I just wanted to take a moment and appreciate y'all active users you're all fun when expected and helpful when needed.
Much love
Ka nkazi kaine kalibe thako
Koma ehh nka makani ngati Kali ndi thako ngati la Nikki Minaj
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Okay guys it's literally concerning how I overthink everything.
And it's eating up my brain, having headaches and all that..
I'm literally overthinking everything. How do you stop overthinking?
Guys
I'm a sex addict
I'm working, my girl is still at school (Blantyre) she reports to school from home so we don't have alot of time together.
But when it's the weekends or the holidays she has a "I don't go out" thing.
And we end up just meeting when she's going somewhere. And we don't really have time to get intimate 🥲
And we only do a few times when I'm off work early and that's patali patali, and with my addiction it's not going so well.
And she doesn't make time for us even during the holidays in 3 months we'll just meet maybe 5 times and those wont even be dates, or intimate encounters I'll either be escorting her somewhere to do something.
And honestly guys
I love the girl, she's lovely and I do wanna be with her, it's been 2 years now. And I was in a relationship before that where the girl I was with that time also had similar conditions but she'd make time everytime I asked her to.
Yes I've tried talking to her multiple times, she says she wants to have sex but she does nothing about it, but nothing changes at all. And I'm always forced to just understand it as how it is.
I have a place, can't you come to my place at least? Or even once a week?.
So I've been hooking up with some girls.
But then I still feel guilty at the end of it, everytime.
And now I'm thinking I should just call it off and find a girl who matches all my preferences.
This one is all that guys but that one thing is what's lacking and I've tried communicating.
And I was wondering coz Ive seen so many girls that are living under strict conditions, but still make an excuse and go out to meet their partners and all that.
Or even after early classes, they go to their partners place and chill and all that
But that's not the case with mine.
So should I just call it off?
But I really don't want to be doing that I want to stay loyal to this girl but no intimacy?
Knowing me, I can't manage
I'm confused guys