u/Environmental-Tie436

I M27 fell in love with F32. We became very close while she was filing for divorce, it was secret, messy and it affected my work, habits, and mental state. We both loved each other and talked about a future, but I eventually realized I didn’t believe we could build something healthy or stable. I told her I don’t see a future for us, even though I care deeply. She’s heartbroken but understands. We still work together and share friends. After a while of rough too many breakup cycles we took a break… then I got back into wanting her, fighting the complex of the previous messy situation, decided to try for real. It’s been 6 months since, I love her so much but I don’t know if it’s because her life circumstances are difficult in regards to family, childhood, etc. or because we share similar interpersonal struggles. She loves to take care of everyone around her and then gets stuck and forgets to take care of herself. We both have commitment issues in regards to planning, timing, being unorganized. And she feels a lot of pressure with expectations she feels come from me, about same things that happen over and over, she’s very tolerant to the worst of me. We met 3 years ago, we’re both close to our mutual friends which complicates things, they haven’t been in the picture until recently. I care a lot about her and I feel that’s been blindsiding my actions. I wonder what questions should I ask myself

We became very close while she was filing for divorce, it was secret, messy and it affected my work, habits, and mental state. We both loved each other and talked about a future, but I eventually realized I didn’t believe we could build something healthy or stable. I told her I don’t see a future for us, even though I care deeply. She’s heartbroken but understands. We still work together and share friends. After a while of rough too many breakup cycles we took a break… then I got back into wanting her, fighting the complex of the previous messy situation, decided to try for real. It’s been 6 months since, I love her so much but I don’t know if it’s because her life circumstances are difficult in regards to family, childhood, etc. or because we share similar interpersonal struggles. She loves to take care of everyone around her and then gets stuck and forgets to take care of herself. We both have commitment issues in regards to planning, timing, being unorganized. And she feels a lot of pressure with expectations she feels come from me, about same things that happen over and over, she’s very tolerant to the worst of me. We met 3 years ago, we’re both close to our mutual friends which complicates things, they haven’t been in the picture until recently. I care a lot about her and I feel that’s been blindsiding my actions.

Laid off on H-1B, filed I-539 COS to F-1 (still pending), now have a new employer ready to file H-1B as a change of status with premium processing -- does USCIS adjudicate pending I-539 and the H-1B together and approve the H-1B without leaving the US? Any RFEs?

from H1-B to pending I-539 (F-1), new employer filing H-1B premium (waiting on company's immigration firm response that's taking forever.. before they formalize offer) does USCIS approve both together? could I run into issues or RFEs?