u/Environmental_Crow32

So I’ve read some past threads on here

I am debating getting flowers for my ex for her bday but I don’t know whether I should or not. We stopped talking as much back in February here and there until almost a month ago and then it’s been no message back from her. There has been things going on in her life and same as mine. And I told her I think we should just go our separate ways for now and she agreed that she didn’t want to continue to hurt me and so on. I’ve messaged her a couple times since then but no response. Maybe she’s talking to someone new honestly idk and really I don’t care either it’s her life and she can do what she wants. So to keep it short. We live in two different countries and I live in US and her in Europe. We never met we were supposed to in February but circumstances led to that not happening. So I always told her for any special event I would always get her flowers no matter what happened or if she found someone new. It’s not like this is a new thing. I sent her flowers on Valentine’s Day and even Women’s day this year. Which she even posted to her insta stories And almost monthly flowers all last year.

So my question is should I send her flowers to her Birthday at the end of this month or no? I don’t want it to seem like I’m trying to get her back but more like I’m upholding my word to her. I don’t care much if she’s moved on. Yes I care but I also want to be a man of my word but not come off like it’s weird. I see mixed feelings about this on TikTok and here some women say yes I’d run back or that they appreciate it but some it seems to come back as stalking in a way. I want to respect boundaries and her space so it’s not even like I’m expecting a response.

So I am debating getting flowers for my ex for her bday but I don’t know whether I should or not. We stopped talking as much back in February here and there until almost a month ago and then it’s been no message back from her. There has been things going on in her life and same as mine. And I told her I think we should just go our separate ways for now and she agreed that she didn’t want to continue to hurt me and so on. I’ve messaged her a couple times since then but no response. Maybe she’s talking to someone new honestly idk and really I don’t care either it’s her life and she can do what she wants. So to keep it short. We live in two different countries and I live in US and her in Europe. We never met we were supposed to in February but circumstances led to that not happening. So I always told her for any special event I would always get her flowers no matter what happened or if she found someone new.

So my question is should I send her flowers to her Birthday at the end of this month or no? I don’t want it to seem like I’m trying to get her back but more like I’m upholding my word to her.