u/Equivalent-Wallaby13

I see people post bold opinions and call others out, but only from throwaway accounts. I said in a thread that it feels cowardly and that if you’re going to say something, you should stand behind it.

People got defensive and said I was being unfair and that throwaways are about privacy.
I see people post bold opinions and call others out, but only from throwaway accounts. I said in a thread that it feels cowardly and that if you’re going to say something, you should stand behind it. PPL got defensive and said I was being unfair and that throwaways are about privacy. GROW TF UP COWARD.

I still think hiding behind a burner to say things you wouldn’t on your main is weak. Your weak if yiu do it and a joke

AITA?

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I got dumped… but that wasn’t the hardest part.

The hardest part was what came after. Staying in contact. Getting just enough attention to keep hope alive, but never enough to actually rebuild anything.

You end up stuck in this weird middle ground where you are not together, but not fully let go either. And every time they text, you feel pulled back in. Every time they pull away, it resets the hurt all over again.

Over time, it gets worse. The respect fades. They start nitpicking you, bringing up your flaws, telling you what they’re not attracted to anymore. Meanwhile, you’re still holding onto what it used to be.

And the part that really messes with you? They’ve already moved on emotionally… but you haven’t been given the space to.That slow, drawn-out ending does more damage than the breakup itself. If you’re in that position, where someone only gives you just enough to stay, it’s bad and you’re not healing. You’re being kept in place.

The only thing that actually gonna help me is stepping away completely.

You know who you are