I (26F) am getting an abortion and don’t know if I should tell my fiancé (28M)
My fiancé and I have been together for over 6 years. We’ve discussed kids many many times. I will not have a child until I am married, and even then I am not crazy about the idea of having any, 1-2 at most. He’s always wanted children, but says he’s pro choice. He talks about kids often, what he’d want to name them, how we’d make it work, all that stuff.
On 6/6, I had taken two pregnancy tests as my period was late, which is really uncommon for me. Both came back positive. I’ve never been pregnant before, I didn’t even notice any symptoms since I was expecting my normal cycle to show up. Immediately after getting those results, I went and ordered prescription abortion pills.
I haven’t told him or anyone else that I’m currently pregnant. I’m scared of being pregnant in the first place, and I’m afraid he’d want me to continue with this pregnancy. I know this is not the right time for me, we’re in the midst of wedding planning, I’m working towards a big promotion, I can’t financially support a child, and a million other reasons why I’m not ready. It feels wrong to not tell him and do this alone, but I don’t want to create any animosity about my decision from his side. I’m just at such a loss of what to do.
NOT looking for any opinions on abortion/pro-life pro-choice debate.
TL;DR: I am getting an abortion and scared to tell my fiancé as I think he’d want me to keep the pregnancy