How to meet women?
How to meet women?
I am a 27-year-old man. I used to be reasonably successful with women, but over the past 10 years I struggled with a heavy cannabis addiction (I have now been sober for 8 months, I used to smoke 6 joints a day everyday). During that time I didn’t feel the need to build social connections and was fine with how things were.
I now find it extremely difficult to approach and connect with women, and I have to be honest that I feel very insecure in that area.
I hardly get any likes on dating apps, and as I mentioned earlier, I find it very difficult to initiate contact with women. I study history at university and work out four times a week, but somehow it still doesn’t feel like enough.
The women who used to like me either don’t want anything to do with me anymore, either because I missed my chance, or because they now have boyfriends. I look exactly like my father, and he used to be a real ladies’ man. Yet I hardly get any attention, but I think it has more to do with my presence/energy than my looks.
I would like to hear your thoughts on this, and possibly some advice on what I should do best.