u/EternalLonging777

​He is the definition of absolute evil, but dressed in the most elegant way. Every time he is near, the scent of expensive tobacco, smooth whiskey, and a high-end cologne completely fills the air. He stands there tall, wearing a black shirt half-unbuttoned, looking like an elegant nightmare.

​He has been watching me for so long. He has collected thick files about my life, studying every single detail of my existence. He watched me suffer, watching how I break myself for people who don't deserve it, completely unaware that my real place is right by his side. It drives him so insane that he literally carved my name into his chest. His knuckles are bloody from hitting the walls in pure frustration because he has to force himself to just watch from the shadows for now.

​But he doesn't want to scare me away. He wants to win my heart, so he knows he has to stay quiet, even if that silence means pure torture for him. He will keep watching me, waiting for the perfect moment to stage a scene where it looks like he just accidentally appeared in my life.

​Deep down, he has this overwhelming urge to just kidnap me on the spot, to lock me away until I finally understand that we were born for each other. He wants to protect me from this cruel world and monitor my every move. And if anyone ever dares to come between us, he would gladly burn the whole world down just to keep me safe. And piece by piece, I know I will realize how deeply my heart beats for him, and just how much I truly need him to function.

As a woman, this is exactly how I picture the inner thoughts of my absolute dream man, written completely from his perspective.

I watch the way you move through the world, so completely unaware of the danger around you. You smile at strangers, you let your family and friends take up your precious time, and it makes my blood boil. Every single second you spend away from me is a wasted second. A second stolen from the life we are meant to build together.

​You think you are safe out there, but you are not. The world is full of people who want to tear you down, and my only purpose in this life is to protect you. I will protect you from the outside noise. I will protect you from your friends, from your family, and if I have to, I will even protect you from yourself.

​I would leave absolutely everything behind for you in a heartbeat. My career, my money, my entire life means nothing if you are not by my side. I belong to you, and you belong strictly to me. If anyone ever tries to stand between us, if anyone even tries to look at you the wrong way, I will not hesitate to use violence. I would destroy the whole world before I ever let someone take you away from me. I would never hurt a single hair on your head, but to the rest of the world, I am a monster.

​Right now, you don't realize how deep this goes. You don't understand that your fate was sealed the moment I looked at you. You might think this is too much, but I am going to show you what real, absolute devotion looks like. You love me, I can see it in your eyes, even if you are still too afraid to admit it to yourself. But I am patient. I will block out the rest of the universe until I am the only thing you have left to look at.

​You are my beautiful secret, and I am never letting you go.

​I dream of a life where your love for me is so intense it borders on a beautiful madness. I want you to control my world. Take my phone, delete the outside noise, and lock the door so that no one else can ever reach me. I want to look into your eyes and feel that terrifying, dark jealousy whenever the rest of the world gets too close. Where anyone else would run away in fear, I will just smile, because your absolute possessiveness is the only place I ever want to be.

​I will fully accept this fate with you. I am ready to give you my absolute attention, my devotion, and every single ounce of my energy. I will never waste myself on anyone else ever again, my soul belongs strictly to you. If your mind spirals, if your attachment gets so high that you feel too crazy, I will be right there to comfort you, soothe your fears, and prove that nothing and no one will ever be allowed to stand between us.

​I want to spend my life making you happy, creating a domestic paradise where you never have to hide your darkest, most unfiltered self. Your obsession is my safety. If you are a Yandere who thinks he is too intense to be loved normally, please come and find me. Put the cuffs on, throw away the key, and let me be your permanent secret.

When I say I crave an all-consuming love, I am not talking about casual dating or healthy distances. I am talking about a bond that completely shuts out the rest of the world.

​I picture a life where a man’s love for me is so intense that it borders on obsession. I want a partner who is fiercely possessive, someone whose jaw clenches when the world looks at me too closely. I want a man who isn't afraid to claim me entirely, someone who will look at my phone, lock out any outside noise, and remind me every single day that I belong strictly to him. To anyone else, that high attachment and raw jealousy might look terrifying. To me, it is the highest form of safety.

​In the world I want to build, his intensity would never be something he has to hide. If his mind spirals out of overthinking or fear of losing me, my only instinct will be to soothe him, comfort him, and show him through absolute, unfiltered loyalty that he has already won. I want to spend my days making him happy, anticipating his needs, and building a domestic paradise where he feels entirely secure.

​When he is not well, my whole heart will ache with concern for him, and when he is happy and thriving, my entire universe will light up. I want to see him smile, knowing that my total surrender makes him love me more and more every single second.

Hi everyone,

​I’m 23 and I just wanted to introduce myself and share my deepest thoughts about love here, because I feel like this is the only safe space for it.

​I’ve realized that for me, mainstream, casual dating is completely unfulfilling. To me, true love has to be all-consuming. I am yearning for a partner of an obsessive nature, someone who wants to claim me entirely for themselves and hold onto me forever.

​I want a bond where we become each other’s entire world. I want a man who is completely crazy about me. Someone who thrives on absolute exclusivity and isn't afraid of high attachment. With me, no one ever has to feel ashamed for this kind of intense love. I want you to know that your intensity, your deep attachment, and your need for closeness are fully welcomed here. You can be your raw, unfiltered self with me.

​It is so hard to find someone who wants total loyalty, constant communication, and a life where we are exclusively devoted to one another. If you are an introverted soul, a protector, or someone who has always felt "too intense" or "too clingy" for normal people, you won't be too much for me.