u/Eternal_Heighthon41

FLINTA stands for “Female, Lesbian, Intersex, Non Binary, Trans, Agender”. It’s kinda funny that this exists here…as if LGBTQI+ wasn’t enough…and you have people going around referring to themselves as FLINTA people…like idk if it’s just me but it’s cringe…does this exist in other countries too or is there an equivalent of it?

I’m mainly with them cuz their English support is pretty decent but I’d switch to a better insurance if there’s one. Do y’all think that their coverage of trans healthcare is good? And are they trans friendly?

how tf do you make friends bro? it feels like you have to be perfectly stealth passing to make friends outside lgbt spaces. like yeah i know that me not speaking German and not having been born here makes it harder to make friends since I’ve been basically starting my life from scratch but like can I just have one friend at least? as embarrassing as it is to admit the main reason i’m obsessed with being pretty is cuz i think it’ll make it easier for me to make friends not cuz i desperately want a man (i do want a sugar daddy tho)…goddamn is it so lonely without having a friend to talk to and hang out with

I’m a disgusting piece of shit lol…maybe in the next life

We give cis guys shit for not wanting to date us or be public about dating us but cis women are prolly also iffy about being in a relationship with a trans guy. Like yeah I guess genitals could be a reason but i feel like expectations from other men or other women is a bigger reason. It’s also the reason why race mixing is rare and white people date other white people usually, cuz everyone is obsessed with societal expectations and what society is gonna think of their relationship

Cis women are taught a lot of stuff at a young age, by their mother or a sister or a female friend. Whereas a lot of us don’t have access to much of this knowledge cis women get at a young age. My fucking mother treats me like her son so she doesn’t bother helping me learn how to feminize myself better, i have like no female friends to impart this knowledge onto me either and even like my cis female followers on insta don’t bother telling me how to groom myself better cuz like “you’re valid no matter how you look like” right so why even try to be more feminine when you’re valid as you are right now. Even shit like grooming my eyebrows is something i started doing regularly cuz y’all kept telling me “do your eyebrows” like my cis female followers on insta and those I’m acquainted with irl haven’t once told me to do my eyebrows bro…it’s crazy that i started doing my eyebrows regularly cuz of 4tranners on the internet😭

Goddamn a lot of the women in my area fucking mog me so bad:/…with their false lashes and face full of makeup…especially pretty white women…whoever came up with this bs “it’s all social media filters and editing and anglefrauding, real women don’t look like that go outside” cope should fucking burn in the afterlife

Like I was deadass just doing grocery shopping and it was hard to concentrate on buying groceries with some of the women in my line of sight

No one’s gonna miss me anyway except my narcissistic mom who’ll miss “her son”…

This guy just told me “you have nice hair habibi” on the train😭, I didn’t know how to react cuz I didn’t know whether the guy was catcalling me or whether he saw me as a guy and thought that I have nice hair for a guy??? or whether he was hitting on me?

So that I can be put out of my misery, so I don’t have to live this shitty life anymore, so I don’t have to live for the sake of living…doubt anyone will miss me tbh, I’ll just be another murdered troon…i don’t have to disgust people with my presence again

Cis femboy who looks kinda like a girl, is quite feminine and has a feminine personality too due to some degree of female socialization, or a hon who looks like a complete man trying out feminine clothes with like no female socialization?

Leaving 4tran spaces won’t change the fact that I went through the wrong puberty and my suffering is tied to that, it won’t change the discomfort in my body, it won’t change all of the lost time where I wasn’t able to live as myself, it won’t change the fact that my family sucks. It won’t change any of that. And then they default to “go to therapy”, as if any therapist will understand me to the extent y’all do, even most “trans people” don’t understand me cuz they’re non dysphorics, so unless this therapist is a 1 in a 100 or 1000 i’m not going to be truly helped. This also ignores the fact that most therapists speak only in German here, that their waitlists are extremely long with many of them not even accepting new patients and other issues with the system of therapy in this country. So yeah it really pisses me off when i hear “get off 4tran” from a non dysphoric, especially cuz y’all have actually materially supported me during shitty times, something i doubt any other community would do