Looking for Butch Perspectives on Parenthood
I'm a femme, and I've wanted children for as long as I can remember. At the same time, I'm exclusively attracted to butches. Lately, I've found myself worrying that I might have to choose between being with the kind of woman I've always dreamed of and having children.
If it came down to it, the woman I spend my life with would always be more important to me than having kids. But that doesn't make it any easier to let go of the dream of having a family.
I'd really love to hear from butches about how you feel about having children. Is it something you've always wanted, something you've never wanted, or something you're still figuring out? I'd be so grateful for any thoughts or experiences you're willing to share.