u/Euphoric-Drummer8874

So I feel so bad after having sex. I’m verse but I’ve been topping for a while now, I’m not trying to boast but I know I have good D cause I’m always told I do. Anyways I always feel so bad after sex. Like it feels good during but i feel like it makes me so exhausted after and I feel like I’m wasting so much good nutrition lol. I don’t know why I feel like this but I think I gotta stop giving into my flesh.

Has anyone done something like this before? I wanted to see if any Black gay men in the DMV area would be interested in a casual dinner meetup—good food, introductions, and cool conversation. I was thinking places like Dogon, Isla, or similar spots. If there’s interest, I can put together details.

Has anyone experienced Black Pride in Paris? Thinking about a travel group

I’ve heard Black Pride in Paris is an amazing experience and unlike anything else. I’ve also heard it can be really affirming and life-changing for some people.

I’m curious if anyone here has gone before and what your experience was like. Also wondering if there’s interest in organizing a travel group for mature Black gay men who may want to attend together.

I’m thinking of stepping out tonight to see what’s the DC Black Pride giving, I’m a chill gay, quiet, keep to myself and just like to be around good vibes. I HATE THE MEAN, CADDY, JUDGY GAYS (black or non black). It’s not necessary to go out your way to bring another black gay brother or trans sister down!. Like why we cant all have a good time?
One boy tried his best to taunt me with a stare bc he thought i waned someone he was talking to (which was my friend btw). Im like boy chill tf out i dont want him.
Currently, i am either going to iron a fjt to step out or skip it altogether?! What yall think?

Ever since me snd my ex broke up from time to time I miss the companionship. Yeah, I like my alone time as well, but I do miss waking up to him and our adventures. Like having someone there to experience new things with. And I think talking to new ppl like getting to know them is exciting but I like face to face interaction. I know that’s weird but I like to feed off other ppl’s vibe and what not. Does that make sense ? Am I the only one that feels like this ?

What’s up y’all. I’m a 36-year-old gay Black man who recently became single after being in an 8-year relationship.

I used to be very sexual with my partner — always wanting intimacy and sometimes even getting upset when he didn’t.

But now I’m at a point where I honestly don’t care much about sex anymore. Has anyone else gone through something similar after a long relationship?

Hey, I’m in NE DC looking for a gym partner—preferably someone who’s also into nerdy stuff (tech, anime, gaming, etc.). I’m consistent, focused on [strength training / bodybuilding / general fitness], and trying to stay disciplined. Would be dope to find someone to lock in with and keep each other accountable.