thoughts about what my bf’s past girl did
problem/goal: bakit kaya nang-sstalk yung past ng mga partner natin? kasi the girl my bf previously liked (hindi naging sila) has viewed my stories a few times this year. understandable pa siguro nung nagsisimula pa lang kami mag-usap ng bf ko since baka curious siya. pero naulit na naman starting last june and kitang kita ko ang name niya sa viewers list kasi may nakalagay na “non-follower”. hindi niya kaya alam na nakikita ko yon? o sadyang gusto niyang malaman ko na iniistalk niya ko? or may other reason/s pa? I just want to know why nang-sstalk pa ang mga past natin sa current partners natin kasi I never did that to any of my pasts. 😅
context: they never really had an official relationship. nagustuhan ng bf ko si girl pero eventually, pinaasa lang siya ni girl and attention niya lang ang gusto ni girl and she friendzoned him kaya he had to move forward. even his og circle (I’m friends with a couple of them since 2023, even before I met him) e ayaw kay girl dahil na rin may attitude (may incident pa na our common friends told me that the girl shouted at him in public because she was “overstimulated”).
thank you and stay safe!