need advice
hoping this reaches the right people haha. i need advice with what to do or how to move forward from something. i was talking to this girl for almost 2 years. we never "officially" were together but the way we progressed, you might as well have just considered us in a relationship. i love everything about this girl. not just how she makes me feel, but who she is. i genuinely just love her with all of me. i want to take of care her. be there for her. protect her. give her everything. we are so compatible. but one thing would constantly come up. just small, minuscule debates about random things. it could be about whether or not cats are cool! i could thinks cat aren't cool and she would think cats are and we would have these passionate debates about that for like 30-45 minutes. it really bothered her. she felt as if we disagreed too much. regardless of everything we did agree on (which was a lot), she wanted to just stay friends because of this. i was ready to let her walk away but people in my life told me some things are worth fighting for. that i am super happy with her and around her. that we match so well and disagreeing should be normal not a deal breaker. (obviously not to the extent where we wouldn't be considered compatible) we agreed and meshed so well on SO MUCH! like i can't explain how well we get along. how good things are. but those random arguments just really got to her. we've been friends for about a month and a half. even that decision felt forced because it seemed she was still in the headspace of wanting to be together. wanting to try. but just feeling like scared to feel sad about these random arguments again. plus her friends definitely influence her to make impulsive rash decisions. it is really hard for me to be around her knowing how strongly i feel for her. it never changed. i know she was just scared of certain things but of course i will never force someone to see what i see. i just love this girl and don't want to throw anything anyway without fully putting myself out there for it. you know? i don't know am i crazy what should i do?