u/EvilBetty77

Me, [48f] him [33m] He acts like he is an authority figure in our relationship.

Just what it says, I've been with him for about 3 years and living together for just over one year now, and since we've been living together he has been acting like he's an authority figure, and gets pretty pissed when i don't follow his edicts, even threatening to leave sometimes. (He's threatened that so many times it's lost it's impact)

What's worse, is a lot of the things he threatens to leave over are trivial. Not doing dishes, getting a parking ticket, forgetting to make an appointment are three that come readily to mind.

Additionally any time I bring up concerns they tend to get trivialized or ignored. For example, his cat constantly harassed mine (it's bad enough my cat never leaves my office) , and no matter how many times I mention it nothing gets done. And now the cat has stayed attacking me to get to my cat, and his response is that telling him it's unnecessary because there's nothing he can do.

I am torn between finding a way to salvage the situation, or abandoning it altogether.

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u/EvilBetty77 — 8 days ago
▲ 138 r/BG3

Two ways to interpret that line.

So, is he using bone as a noun or a verb here?

u/EvilBetty77 — 9 days ago