I feel Nauseous when i should feel arousal
Recently, starting about maybe 2-3 days ago, Ive started feeling nauseous when getting intimate with my girlfriend and I don’t know what to do. I can’t tell if this issue is just in my head and i’m making it worse by only thinking about it all the time, or if it’s genuinely a physical hormonal issue in my body.
I Love my girlfriend more than anything in the entire world and I genuinely think that she’s the most attractive sexiest person ever to exist but thinking about all the things that’d normally drive me crazy basically does nothing. I haven’t watched porn in nearly a year since we started dating, but i decided to run an experiment and did, and nothing, i got the same feeling.
It’s not an issue a 100% of the time though, two days ago we had the hottest spontaneous sex ever like genuinely in the top 10s, but now yesterday despite wanting to so badly i couldn’t get it up.
I don’t know what to do, i don’t know if/ how to tell her, i know this would ruin her self esteem even if she could somehow understand that this is not because of her in the slightest, and i don’t blame her if i were in her position it would destroy me.
Any/ all advice is greatly appreciated, please help.
p.s. im 20, have a very healthy diet, and do exercise 6 days a week, but i’ve recently, around the time this started, got a new job under the ems umbrella, its not necessarily the most stressful job but i see a lot of very nasty things.
im just listing info that i think might be slightly pertinent to my issue at this point