u/Exact_Initiative_318

Hey, decided to finally make a post here. I’m 20, from Kenya, and interested in meeting an older guy who’s kind, emotionally mature, and actually looking for something meaningful.

I’m pretty calm and easygoing. I enjoy music, YouTube/shows, nature walks, cycling, and just having good conversations. I appreciate honesty, consistency, affection, and people who genuinely know what they want.

Open to long distance if we connect well. I care more about personality and effort than distance. Would be nice to eventually meet if things naturally go in that direction.

If you’re interested, feel free to message me and tell me a bit about yourself NB: only serious guys please.

How many failed talking stages, situationships, or dates did it take before you finally met your person?

At this point, dating feels exhausting . People lose interest fast, avoid communication, disappear randomly, or say they want something serious but act differently.

Sometimes it feels like genuine connections are so rare these days. Makes you wonder if love is just luck at this point.

For those who eventually found their person — how long did it take before things finally worked out?

How Many Failed Talking Stages Before You Found Love?