u/Existing_Parking_485

Dealing with Having Diagnosis Revoked/Without a Diagnosis?

So from 12 yrs old to now (24) I thought I had ADHD. I was diagnosed at 12, my mom’s been diagnosed for YEARS, and my dad has been diagnosed as dyslexic since he was a kid. My uncle is also considered “mentally r*tarded” (he was diagnosed in the 60s/70s so I don’t know if he’s technically autistic or not by today’s standards). I just recently went for my ADHD re-evaluation, and the social worker had tested me and said she doesn’t know how I was diagnosed with ADHD, because I don’t have it…I’ve been struggling for weeks now due to that, as she said she believes I may have suspected autism, but is unable to diagnose me herself. I’ve been completely struggling trying to be “normal” even more than I do daily. It’s been getting to the point over the past 1-2 years now that I’ve been getting more and more suicidal, and this is the cherry on top. Now without my ADHD diagnosis, I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I have never been treated with medication, but I’ve hit a point where I am BEGGING for something, anything to help me. It’s so difficult to do daily tasks, work is so difficult to speak sometimes and I feel my body compressing in itself, it feels. I feel mental anguish constantly. Does anyone know what I can do while I try my absolute hardest to find an autism assessor that doesn’t cost over $1k+? I don’t have anyone irl to vent to at all, so I apologize….The people in my life are sick of me.

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u/Existing_Parking_485 — 7 hours ago

Excuse the posing, screenshots of a vid I took in the outfit. I need help figuring out if these heels actually look fine with the dress, or if you think it’s just the angle of the video? I’m not sure if they make my height look awkward or not, as I’m 5’0ft. Please and thanks in advance!!

u/Existing_Parking_485 — 1 month ago