u/Existing_Passion_430

my boyfriend (21M) said he can’t spend my birthday with me (18F) what should i do?

Me and his sister share the same birthday. same day. same month. same year. He told me he cannot spend that day with me on call while his phone was on speaker and his sister was next to him so i didn’t say anything though i wanted to cry in that moment.

After i told him i was sad and said i know u have to respect your family i asked for the afternoon to be freed up for me. he said yes and he said i was also important to him. i don’t know why i feel like it’s forced just because i was sad. I also feel sad though there’s nothing i can do that i need to share a day that should be about me with someone else though it’s his family. I just can’t help but to feel a bit disappointed and scared that this would become a yearly thing.

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u/Existing_Passion_430 — 22 days ago

My boyfriend (21M) said he can’t spend my birthday (18F) with me. what can i do?

Me and his sister share the same birthday. same day. same month. same year. He told me he cannot spend that day with me on call while his phone was on speaker and his sister was next to him so i didn’t say anything though i wanted to cry in that moment.

After i told him i was sad and said i know u have to respect your family i asked for the afternoon to be freed up for me. he said yes and he said i was also important to him. i don’t know why i feel like it’s forced just because i was sad. I also feel sad though there’s nothing i can do that i need to share a day that should be about me with someone else though it’s his family. I just can’t help but to feel a bit disappointed and scared that this would become a yearly thing.

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u/Existing_Passion_430 — 22 days ago