Anyone looking for a flat in north campus, have a really good one, my current flatmate is leaving.
Its just behind mcd in kamla nagar so location is prime
Its a 3bhk, 13k per person
Available from july
Pls lmk
Anyone looking for a flat in nc? I have a really good one, my current flatmate is leaving.
Its just behind mcd in kamla nagar so location is prime
Its a 3bhk, 13k per person
Available from july
Pls lmk
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year, and overall the relationship has been really good. In the beginning I was completely okay with his female best friend( who got a bf) because I also have close guy friends, so I didn’t see an issue with opposite-gender friendships.
Over time though, I started feeling uncomfortable with how often he mentioned her and how involved she seemed in his life. He would bring her up randomly during dates, compare things in our relationship to hers, and spend time with her 1–2 times a week. I tried ignoring the feeling at first because I didn’t want to be controlling or insecure.
The situation escalated when he went drinking with her and some other girls, attended parties at her house, and later threw a combined birthday party with her with only girls being there even after I explained how hurt and uncomfortable it made me feel, he still did that after i told me i wont meet him if he does. That made me feel like my feelings weren’t being prioritized.
We had a huge argument after that, and he agreed to create more boundaries and see her less often, which he has done. But the trust issues and resentment stayed on my side.
Recently I found old comments from him on her posts that were flirtatious.When I confronted him, he said she had asked him to comment those things to make her boyfriend jealous. Since then, I’ve been struggling even more with insecurity and discomfort around their friendship.
At this point I feel like I can’t fully move past it, and I asked him to cut contact with her completely if we want the relationship to work. He says she’s one of his closest genuine friends and doesn’t think cutting her off is fair and itll make him isolated as he doesnt have much genuine bonds but he still wants to find some kind of compromise.
I really love him and don’t want to lose the relationship, but I also don’t know how to stop feeling hurt and anxious about this situation. Has anyone dealt with something similar? How do you figure out whether this is a trust issue, a compatibility issue around boundaries, or something that can actually be worked through?