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the love of my life blocked me on May 19th after I caught her liking a reel on Instagram that said “how it feels to not date someone’s demonic son anymore“ I sent that to her, and I told her how upsetting that was how heartbreaking it was for and that I could never hate her love her no matter what and that this is really a stab in the chest to me, and she blocked me on Instagram. She then proceeds to try and call me at 2 AM while I was asleep and when I wake up at 6 am to text message from her saying that she’s extremely sorry for liking that reel, and that she liked that in a moment of immaturity anger and frustration, but she feels genuinely horrible that it upset me. But she also told me that her decision is still the same and that she didn’t get back together. However, she still follows my mom. She still follows my business and her gym account still follows me, and I’m the only dude she follows. And even though I unfollowed her everywhere else she still follows me and uses those accounts to view my stories besides my personal Instagram blocked. We’ve been broken up with now for almost a month and a half, we talked about marriage together. We just picked out a place to live. We had the names of our children picked out, been a rough time as I think about her every single day. Does no contact actually work? Should I give her space? Because I want this woman back and I wanna spend the rest of my life with her and grow old with her however, I know that if I keep trying to reach out to her or keep trying to get her to talk to me it’s just going to push her further away. how do you think I’ll be blocked for? Since she was the one that dumped me even though she told me she never wanted to lose me and she loves me with all of her heart and all of her soul. How long do you think it’ll take for her to reach out?

my long distance girlfriend and I broke up last month. it’s been really challenging. hasn’t really gotten better since I wanted to marry this woman and have children with her. The distance brought out some fights with us but in person we never argued and rarely had fights, we were eachothers bestfriend. She left me back in April and even though I was getting mixed signals from her during the first 2 weeks all over social media, she texted me a few days ago saying she needs to move on and she never wants to reconnect in the future because she feels at peace and more “connected“ to herself even though she told me that it brings her pain to say that. it’s been a month and it hurts so much for her to say that she needs to move on even though she would tell me all the time she wants to spend forever with me and do life together. Hoping she changes her mind after the initial breakup relief wears off, I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this woman

around two weeks ago my long distance girlfriend and I broke up. However, there’s some factors and some things that I’ve noticed that has me dying to reach out to her. To cut a long story short we have been fighting for a few weeks leading up to the end of our relationship which was over a year and a half. She had a bunch of childhood trauma resurface recently, and it caused her to change as a person and to turn into someone that I didn’t recognize. she became very distant, non communicative, would act like I’m a burden to her when I’m just asking to help or for her to talk to me and to be honest I didn’t handle that the best and there are some moments that I wish I could change or that I could’ve handled differently, so she was the one that broke up with me on a Saturday.

The next day, however we called and talked for two hours. I laid everything out on the table and begged her not to leave, And told her I was willing to work on anything or go through anything just so like I could spend the rest of my life with her, but it didn’t work out. She ended the call, not saying goodbye but by saying she loves me and you could hear her crying over the phone.

And over the course of the next few days, I would get notifications that she’s typing to me on Snapchat multiple times, But would never send anything, She’s posting notes on Instagram of song lyrics that are exactly like our situation, And she unsent an iMessage text to me as well.

Even though she was the one that ended everything, I haven’t reached out to text her Because I figured she needs space, I did however send her a bouquet of flowers With a note attached to it saying “I hope you’re doing better with everything that’s been going on. I hope you’re okay you’ve found peace, and I’ve been praying for you daily“ And I never got a response or an acknowledgment about it. I don’t want to spam her or blow up her phone But I really get her back but at the same time not invade her space since she’s the one that ended things. ive thought about waiting to see if she ever reaches out but I also know that could never happen or it could be a very long time if it even does. We don’t have eachother blocked on any platforms and still follow one another so there’s no hate on either side at least from what I’m aware of. what should I do?