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So there’s this girl I was talking to for about a month. Almost everyday kami nag-uusap, like hanggang madaling araw minsan. And during that time, she never really told me directly kung ano ba talaga intention niya or kung ano kami. Pero based on how she acted… I can’t lie, nahulog yung feelings ko.

She was kinda flirty, consistent sa chats, and honestly I felt like may “something” talaga. So I got attached. Hindi naman ako nag-assume out of nowhere, parang she was giving me reasons to feel that way.

Then suddenly, one night, bigla nalang nag-start siyang kausap yung close friend ko. And mabilis lahat. Like sobrang bilis nila naging close and parang may landian na agad. Then, they told me na they love each other na?! Like “huh”?!

Doon ako sobrang na-confuse and nasaktan kasi it felt like… was I just a bridge lang ba? Parang ako yung naging way para makalapit siya sa friend ko? That feeling hurt a lot.

After that, everything got messy. I felt upset, my emotions got the best of me, and became silent and eventually, me and my friend ended up deciding to block her. It wasn’t even supposed to be a “conflict over a person” situation kasi we actually talked and promised before na we don’t want to ruin our friendship just because of someone.

Then the next day, That girl messaged me. And she said a lot of hurtful things. She was accusing me of things that weren’t true, like I was the one who told my friend to block her or manipulate the situation, which honestly wasn’t what happened.

What hurt more is that she made me feel like everything I felt was invalid, like I was just being dramatic or selfish.

She talked arrogantly, and told me that I was just too obsessed with her?! Dinidiin niya na mahal na raw nila ang isa’t isa and gusto niya na itong pakasalan..??! what the f- kakikilala lang nila sa chat ng isang araw?

Right now I just feel drained sa mga nangyari. I think naging tama yung desisyon namin na layuan siya.

Dapat kasi kung gusto niya friend ko ay dapat yung friend ko yung kinakausap niya directly at hindi ako. Kung magpapatulong sakin para sa friend ko, dapat sinasabi niya rin. Hindi yung pinaabot pa ng month ang pag uusap namin.

So there’s this girl I was talking to for about a month. Almost everyday kami nag-uusap, like hanggang madaling araw minsan. And during that time, she never really told me directly kung ano ba talaga intention niya or kung ano kami. Pero based on how she acted… I can’t lie, nahulog yung feelings ko.

She was kinda flirty, consistent sa chats, and honestly I felt like may “something” talaga. So I got attached. Hindi naman ako nag-assume out of nowhere, parang she was giving me reasons to feel that way.

Then suddenly, one night, bigla nalang nag-start siyang kausap yung close friend ko. And mabilis lahat. Like sobrang bilis nila naging close and parang may landian na agad. Then, they told me na they love each other na?! Like “huh”?!

Doon ako sobrang na-confuse and nasaktan kasi it felt like… was I just a bridge lang ba? Parang ako yung naging way para makalapit siya sa friend ko? That feeling hurt a lot.

After that, everything got messy. I felt upset, my emotions got the best of me, and became silent and eventually, me and my friend ended up deciding to block her. It wasn’t even supposed to be a “conflict over a person” situation kasi we actually talked and promised before na we don’t want to ruin our friendship just because of someone.

Then the next day, That girl messaged me. And she said a lot of hurtful things. She was accusing me of things that weren’t true, like I was the one who told my friend to block her or manipulate the situation, which honestly wasn’t what happened.

What hurt more is that she made me feel like everything I felt was invalid, like I was just being dramatic or selfish.

She talked arrogantly, and told me that I was just too obsessed with her?! Dinidiin niya na mahal na raw nila ang isa’t isa and gusto niya na itong pakasalan..??! what the f- kakikilala lang nila sa chat ng isang araw?

Right now I just feel drained sa mga nangyari. I think naging tama yung desisyon namin na layuan siya.

Dapat kasi kung gusto niya friend ko ay dapat yung friend ko yung kinakausap niya directly at hindi ako. Kung magpapatulong sakin para sa friend ko, dapat sinasabi niya rin. Hindi yung pinaabot pa ng month ang pag uusap namin.