u/Expensive_Pizza9186

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Narcissistic SIL

I have the worst SIL in the world. My husband and his siblings were put up for adoption when they were small children. And they never knew each other for 50 years.

When my husband and I were married, he told me he wished he knew who and where his siblings were. Well my dumb ass got on the internet and began investigating. I also wrote lots of letters.

Eventually we found them, first his brother, which he turned out to be a narcissistic bastard also. That's a drama story also for another date.

Then we found the drama queen. His sister. She has been a thorn in my side since. She even went as far as to tell me everyone hated me and to do them all a favor and kill myself. I might mention I'm very vocal and don't hold back. If you're a ah I will tell you without blinking an eye.

She is the type that always plays the victim. Always wants my husbands undivided attention. She will cry and do the "oh poor me". And of course he plays into it. She tried to come live with us before but since she is like that on top of being an raging alcoholic I put a stop to it.

I have caught my husband calling me a bitch to her which only makes her excited to hear. She wants to break our marriage up so she can have him all to herself. I have asked him to set her straight but he says he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. I already told her she isn't welcome in our home.

Am I the only one with a monster in law like this?

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u/Expensive_Pizza9186 — 9 days ago