Married M28
Hey everyone just want some advice! I’m M28 and my wife is F29 we have been married for almost 10 years and we have 3 kids 7,6,and 3. I love my life and i feel that she loves her aswell. My issue is that my wife never initiates sex or wants to have sex. I’m not gonna lie I’m a very sexual person and if it was up to me I’d do it a few times a week. She knows this too, this isn’t the first time this has happened as while she was pregnant and after the 3rd sex was nonexistent, I struggled a lot didn’t know what to do with my self, became selfish contemplated cheating, anyways we got thru it. Still not a lot of sex but w.e. Recently she lost a lot of weight started feeling better about her self but still wasn’t very sexual until she started reading smut then we started having sex all the time and I was loving it. Life was great until recently this year had been kinda of on that same sexless boat. We have probably had sex 5-6 times this year and thinking about it it’s pretty crazy. Idk what to do feels like were roommates and I’m about to talk to her about it but I just can’t take this anymore. It might be her insecurities with her body still but it’s very annoying always wanting and never being wanted. I know she loves and she’s knows I love her but man it hurts when I want my wife to want me but nothing.