Too many of y’all on this sub are too forgiving. They’re not gonna change. If they are chronic liars, they won’t change. If they are cheaters, they won’t change. If they are disrespectful, they won’t change.
My parents prefer me to marry within my race but they said that if I were to marry outside my race, that I should go for white guys. Their reasoning? Black and brown people are poor and uneducated :/
My hubby and I are 36 and 38. We make 180,000 combined and we can’t afford kids because daycare is too expensive. We looked at the prices and it’s like 20k per kid for a reputable daycare. A large portion of our income already goes to our mortgage so paying for daycare would have us in a financial rut. We are from MA which is a HCOL state.