u/ExtensionYogurt468

I'm 28F, ambitious, and have worked hard to build a career I'm proud of. I'm naturally drawn to people who are equally driven, intellectually curious, and accomplished.

Outside of work, I'm much softer than my résumé would suggest. I love cooking, writing, and creating a warm, peaceful home. I'm affectionate, loyal, and very much a relationship person.

I'm looking for a kind, emotionally mature man who knows what he wants and is ready for a genuine partnership. Someone who values mutual respect, good communication, and building a life together.

A little about me:

- Hindu Vokkaliga Gangatkar, never married

- Height - 4’10”

- medium curly hair, glasses

- Exercise regularly

- Don't smoke, doesn’t rarely

- Family-oriented

- Hoping for marriage and children

I have completed my BE.

What I'm looking for:

- Age 28-34 , never married

- Well educated and established in his career

- Taller than 5’

- Non-smoker, teetotaller

- Emotionally available and over past relationships

- Wants marriage, family, and children

- Respectful toward both families

- Secure, confident, and genuinely happy to see his partner succeed

If this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you.

Hi,
It all started in college 2018 when I was going through a heartbreak. He was my friend since a year at that time. He learnt everything about me, we were close and all of a sudden, started kissing me. I objected and said I would only want it with someone I loved. After a few days, he proposed me but with a few conditions, that I had to become an IAS officer for his family to agree. I had this dream but he used it as a weapon against me. His mom was always against me as she felt I didn’t fit in because of my height and wealth. Mind you that they are not very wealthy but just greedy. He always found ways to breakup with me by provoking me and fighting. This is still going on. He brings up 8 year old issues and frames me as the abuser and himself as the victim. He always wanted to enjoy with his colleagues and friends while me to isolate and study. I am an only daughter and can’t afford to do that. Now, when I ask him about marriage, he says you have to wait, and that he is not desperate to marry me like I am. He insults me in every way possible and portrays that his family is the best. His parents are very controlling. His grandfather himself used to call him “crack” and some of my friends had also told me that he is kind of nuts.

TLDR: Abusive relationship

Please help!!