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Our top 4 names are:

Daniel (my favourite)

Cameron (my partner's favourite)

Sam

Rowan

Our main issue is my partner likes the nicknames for Daniel but doesnt like the full name. And I'm the same with Cameron.

Rowan is a strong contender but we're giving him middle names after our dads, so one of his middle names will be Robert. Plus my partner's surname ends in "ro". So I'm concerned that his full name wont flow very nicely. We also like the name Robin but wont be using it for this reason.

Does anybody have any other name suggestions that fit our vibe? Nothing too unique. We like soft sounding, friendly names.

I live in Scotland and me and my partner have had a 4 day trip to London planned since before I even got pregnant. Its now likely going to be my last holiday before baby arrives.

I have hyperemesis gravidarum, its been a horrendous so far. Ive been in and out of hospital, so sick and pretty much unable to leave my house for any long periods of time for most of my pregnancy.

Now I feel physically able to go on the trip and my vomiting is finally under control with medication but im worried about the heat in London. We would be staying with friends and theres no air conditioning in their flat. And ive noticed the heat even up here has been triggering my nausea and making me exhausted.

What should I do? My partner will be going regardless because hes going to a gig down there. I need to decide soon - we have a Two Together railcard and it will make travelling really expensive for him the longer I leave it.

I dont want to do anything stupid to harm myself or my maybe but Im so depressed at the thought of cancelling. Ive been trapped in my house for so long, not really seeing anybody. Im just really really sad that my partner and my friends will all be having a nice time without me and I would have to miss what will probably be my last chance of a holiday before baby.