u/Extension_Pitch7166

Envy

How do you stop envying and resenting your younger siblings just because they had it easier and a better life because you assumed most of the responsibilities?

Maybe what makes it worse is that I don't see the urge in them to help out—not even for me, but at least for our parents. I'm slowly letting go of that weight.

I'm only about to start living my life at 27. There's a feeling that I wasted my prime years. But it was my choice, and I can't go back.

I just don't want to carry a heavy heart anymore and want to focus on regaining my life. Any tips?

P.S. Guys, if you're in a similar situation, try to live your life while helping out. It will be disappointing in the end if you sacrifice yourself completely. I feel resentment toward my whole family, and I'm only starting to let it go now because it's hard to move forward when you're carrying so much weight.

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u/Extension_Pitch7166 — 7 days ago

You can't unlove someone you really love. Is that true?

But life goes on, and you meet someone else. If there's already someone new, does that mean the love for the old one is gone too?

I haven't reached that stage yet, so I'm curious. What scares me is the possibility that I won't like or love anyone else again.

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u/Extension_Pitch7166 — 7 days ago